What You Can Do

Xavier Quinn's tips for helping an LGBTQ+ survivor (and sexual assault survivors in general) state the following:

  • Listen, but do not demand details.

  • Ask them what you can do to benefit them. For example, offer to walk them home at night.

  • Tell them you believe them and that it is not their fault.

  • Do not insist that they use systems that may not be welcoming to their LGBTQ+ identity (ie police, hospitals, or college administration services).

    • Recommend medical services tailored to LGBTQ+ people.

If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, there are some LGBTQ+ friendly resources listed below, provided by the Human Rights Campaign: