We tend to be creatures of habit, especially when it comes to the norms we embrace. But it can make all the difference to the people around us if we try to get to know them, their traditions, and what values they hold. A simple understanding of some of the major world holidays our peers might celebrate can make them feel a lot more welcome in our communities. This list is by no means all-inclusive - but it's a great place to start. The important thing to remember is that asking respectful questions is always important, and accepting that other people celebrate differently is always welcome.
Some general guidelines are important to know. Make sure you always ask people what they are celebrating and why it is important to them. Try open questions to let them talk about what matters freely. "What are your favorite parts of the holiday?" or "What holidays are your favorite throughout the year?" This lets everyone know you're open to listen no matter what they say. It makes talking safe.
It's also important to respect traditions that are different than your own. Make sure you are open to hearing about other celebrations. This makes people feel welcome and accepted just like we all should.
This festival celebrates the beginning of the year based on the lunar calendar. Also known as the Spring Festival in China, this celebration includes special food, music, and activities. It is among the most important holidays celebrated today, and lasts for several weeks in various countries (East Asia is the most common region).
The "Day of the Dead" celebration typically happens between October 31st and November 2nd. One of the most important parts of this holiday is the creation of "ofrendas" or offerings at altars where people leave cherished possessions, favorite food, and other special items to commemorate the dead.
Eid Al-Fitr is the ending celebration of Ramadan, a month-long tradition in Islam that involves dawn to sunset fasting and prayer. Ramadan itself is viewed as one of the Five Pillars of Islam, and Muslims all around the world celebrate in an attempt to bring themselves closer to their religion and culture.
Hannukah is a Jewish festival celebrating the recovery of a holy temple, a holiday also known as the "Festival of Lights." This holiday is celebrated for eight days and involves special ceremonies such as the lighting of the Menorah or daily prayers.
Kwanzaa is a holiday related to African American History. A six day festival, Kwanzaa was created in the 1960s and modeled after African harvest traditions. Kwanzaa gives Black people an opportunity to celebrate their unique history and embrace powerful heritage.
Diwali is a major Hindu festival that lasts several days. People enjoy special food, prayers, and even light ceremonial candles to illuminate their homes. Though people pray to various gods during Diwali, Lakshmi is among the most prominent for good fortune.
Even though the descriptions above are not overly detailed, they provide some major insights.
1 . Each person celebrates differently. Be respectful of this. Just because you are not celebrating a holiday it does not mean someone else is in the same situation. Add some of the holidays above to your calendar and make sure to consider it when greeting people, asking how they're doing. etc.
2 . Consider what other people experience. During Ramadan, for example, people who are fasting might be more tired or hungry than normal. Be respectful and considerate when interacting with people.
3 . Holidays are important to people, so make sure you treat them seriously. Some traditions might be different than what you are used to - this just means you have an opportunity to appreciate other people and value their differences.
We adapted our holiday resource from Common Sense lesson plans.
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