Respect

Study.com defines respect as,

"Treating someone with respect means that you interact with them in a way that shows that you care about their well-being and how they feel. When you respect someone, you treat them kindly and use good manners. Sometimes it means doing things for them or listening to their instructions."

What does respect look like? Think about the list in this graphic:

• • Speaking with respect involves using a kind tone and using kind words. It means being patient even if you don't agree with what the other speaker is saying. It means waiting your turn and showing you value what others have to say even though you feel the information you have to offer is more valuable.

  • Listening carefully means taking the time to consider the opinions and needs of others. It means understanding that everyone wants their voice to be heard and valued. This doesn't mean you always have to agree or that your opinions don't matter; it simply means accepting that others need to feel important, too. Listening carefully in the classroom means focusing on what your teacher has to say and taking turns with your classmates, so everyone is free to express ideas.

  • Asking nicely means thinking about your tone of voice and mannerisms when you interact with others. We all want to feel valuable and equal to one another. You never know what another person is going through. Your gruff interaction or rude tone of voice might just be used against someone who has already had a terrible day. Endeavor to be the sunshine others need.

  • Helping others means putting others before yourself. Everyone has something to offer, and no one can do everything alone. Offering help is good for the person you are assisting and yourself. Be someone others can depend on. You never know when you might need a helping hand.

  • Using the golden rule means treating others like you want to be treated. If you want others to smile at you, speak kindly to you, and offer a helping hand, be the example they need. This is hard sometimes as others don't always know how to be respectful. You can be a leader in our classroom community by providing a model of respect.

  • Apologizing with grace means being willing to admit when you're wrong. This is a very hard thing to do, but being wrong isn't a bad thing at all. When we realize we're wrong, we've learned what is right. If you have wronged someone, just admit it. Not only will you be showing respect, you will also be gaining the respect of others.

Sometimes, we think being disrespectful to someone makes us more powerful than they are; however, it takes much more strength and self-control to be respectful by thinking of others above ourselves. Strive to be strong in the face of adversity.