Looking after your wellbeing from home
Advice, Resources and Tips for looking after your wellbeing whilst staying at home due to COVID-19
Advice, Resources and Tips for looking after your wellbeing whilst staying at home due to COVID-19
You can do that online, over the phone, and talk to people at home.
You can try out creative ways to keep in touch with people you can't meet up with. This could be through watching the same film at the same time, playing online games together, or playing games on video call.
Read up on tips to maintain healthy relationships in this time here.
Keep in touch with people at work/school/college
When studying from home, try to keep in touch with your classmates and lecturers. They are only an email, a phone call or a text away, and you can share how you are doing, and gain motivation or a sense of normality from their feedback and advice.
Free confidential chats with counsellors
You can have online 1-2-1 chats with counsellors on Kooth (for under 26), The Mix (for under 25), and Childline (for under 19).
Phoning helplines
Remember that you can also call Childline (24/7, on 0800 11 11), The Mix (between 4 and 11 pm, on 0800 808 4994), Samaritans (24/7, on 116 123) or other helplines.
Self help
Take a look at the Anna Freud centre's self-care library with ideas of attitudes and thinking techniques to try out.
You can look at self-help resources and videos on topics such as re-framing unhelpful thoughts, managing anxiety, low mood.
Your support network
Try to talk to people around you about how you are feeling.
A lot of things are changing at the moment, so it can be hard to keep on top of everything.
Check the government guidance for your employment benefits rights, and more advice from citizens advice on what the regulation means for you.
Check the government guidance for possible coronavirus infections. (available in Arabic, Bengali, Chinese, French, Gujarati, Polish, Portuguese, Punjabi, Urdu and Welsh)
With less structure, it is tempting to get out of our usual sleep routine, and it is harder to keep it. You can try using apps (Sleepio, Sleep Cycle) to help you sleep, or practise relaxation techniques (see above) before sleep.
Sleep is essential for your physical health, for your immune system and for your mental health. Read up on tips for better sleep here, and or watch the video below.
Being active when staying at home can be more of a challenge, but it helps maintain both your physical and mental health.
You can read more on the benefits of exercise for your wellbeing here.
Here are a few things you can try:
The Body Coach home workouts (usually 20-30 minutes workouts)
More suggestions from Sport England's Stay In Work Out Page
Mind's "Get active" suggestions and challenges.
If you notice you are worried or anxious try out the APPLE technique explained by HFEH Mind below (the link on the image brings you to a full explanation).
Try out anxiety self-help resources, such as the Living with worry and anxiety amidst global uncertainty workbook, which you can also find in many other languages here.
Try apps that help you deal with worries, such as the following : Catch it, Stress & Anxiety Companion, Clear Fear.
Check out the Calm Zone on Childline, for ideas of activities and games to feel better when anxious.
Take time off from social media and the news from time to time. Try to figure out a routine that keeps you informed, and also doesn't lead to constant worry. This could mean looking at news at specific times of the day, for a specific amount of time, or on specific days of the week.
You could deactivate news notifications, so that you have better control over when you receive news.
When reading the news, try to use trustworthy sources – such as GOV.UK , the NHS website and the WHO website.
You can have news from the WHO (World Health Organisation) from your WhatsApp account. You can get news in English, Arabic, French, Spanish or Italian. You can also get news from your Viber account
Click here for simple information on what the coronavirus is in 26 different languages, if English is not your or your family's preferred language.
You can also try Mindfulness relaxation techniques. Take a look at mindfulness apps to try out, or the Mindful Breathing video below.
Try grounding techniques. These are techniques to help you focus on the present moment, often by focusing on your senses. Try out the 5-4-3-2-1 in the video below!
Explore many more (29!) ways to relax on the Anna Freud self-care page.
A quick Mindful Breathing exercise
A quick Grounding exercise (5-4-3-2-1 senses)
It is likely that your normal routine might change. It can easily feel like there is no more structure when this happens. Try to build a new routine for yourself. You could:
Plan out your day or your week
Try to stick to a similar wake-up and bed-time, and get ready as you usually would.
Plan when you will have breaks, and the activities you will include in your day (i.e. cleaning, cooking, walking, exercising, speaking to friends and family on skype/facetime/zoom, reading, writing, listening to podcasts, etc - more suggestions here)
Use apps to help you remember the routine you've planned. This could be a simple planner, a to do list, or apps that track how much you are managing to stick to a routine such as Streaks, Loop Habit Tracker, or Habitica (for a more game-like app).
Try out new activities.
For ideas of activities to try out, you can check out:
Scouts' ideas for indoor activities
Keep learning
Check out OpenLearn for free courses
Explore Chatter box for a very, very extensive list of things to do when isolating at home.
Do things you enjoy.
Try to continue doing your favourite hobby if you can do it at home.
Notice the activities you are not doing anymore. Replace your activities in a creative way. You could have a go at these "random acts of kindness".
Visit The Mix for more ideas on self-care.
If home isn't safe
If you’re worried about staying at home with someone because it isn’t safe for you, whether you’re with a partner, family member or friend, the most important thing you can do is keep yourself safe.
Childline and the Hideout have advice on domestic abuse, and Refuge has a free helpline you can ring for support.
If you would like to chat with a counsellor online, the following platforms are available:
If you need emergency help, please call 999, go to the nearest A&E, or contact a crisis hotline such as ones listed below:
Samaritans – for everyone - Call 116 123 - Email jo@samaritans.org
Papyrus – for people under 35 - Call 0800 068 41 41 – Monday to Friday 9am to 10pm, weekends and bank holidays 2pm to 10pm -Text 07860 039967 - Email pat@papyrus-uk.org
Childline – for children and young people under 19 - Call 0800 1111 – the number will not show up on your phone bill
Additional resources about specific topics relevant to wellbeing :
Kindness (Mental Health Awareness week);