Also known as: Titles, Terms of Address
An honorific title is a term of address that is generally meant to convey respect or honor. Examples include Sir, M’am, Professor, Mr., Ms., etc.
Both Miss and Mrs. are derived from the term Mistress, which was a term used for women that originally lacked association with marital status. The use of Miss and Mrs. have evolved to indicate a woman’s status as single and married, respectively. The use of Mr. as a derivation of Master has retained its universal use for both single and married men. Common use of Ms. is attributed to Ms. Sheila Michaels, who was active in the women’s movement of the 1960s and promoted its usage. As the practice for women of keeping their maiden name into marriage became popular, Ms. presented an appropriate solution as a form of address. In 1972, Gloria Steinem gave her new feminist magazine the title Ms. In 1984, the use of Ms. was brought into the spotlight when referring to the vice presidential candidate Geraldine Ferraro, who used her maiden name professionally. It was not until 1986 that the New York Times finally issued a statement that it would use Ms. when referring to a woman who prefers that honorific or when the marital status of the woman is unknown.
The Oxford English Dictionary defines Mx. (pronounced “mix”) as “a gender-neutral title of courtesy prefixed to a person's surname, sometimes with first name(s) interposed. Mx. was originally offered as an alternative to Mr, Mrs, Miss, and Ms, as a means to avoid having to specify a person's gender, but has frequently been adopted as a title by those who do not identify themselves as male or female (e.g. transgender or intersex people).” OED indicates that the current usage is fairly low.
NPR: The Two-Way | Sheila Michaels, Who Helped Bring Honorific 'Ms.' To The Masses, Dies At 78
https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2017/07/07/535978012/sheila-michaels-who-helped-bring-honorific-ms-to-the-masses-dies-at-78
Read the story of Sheila Michaels, the woman who was instrumental in bringing the honorific "Ms." from obscurity into mainstream use.
Ms. | Today in Feminist History: The New York Times Says “Ms.”
https://msmagazine.com/2017/06/20/today-feminist-history-new-york-times-says-ms/
Read a story published in Ms. magazine in June 2017 describing the adoption and official use of the honorific Ms. by the New York Times in 1986.
Public Radio International [PRI] | The World in Words: "A British 'Mx.' tape"
https://www.pri.org/stories/2018-03-14/british-mx-tape
Learn more about the campaign for the gender-neutral honorific "Mx." in the UK in this episode of the PRI podcast The World in Words, first released on 19 March 2018. This is the first episode in a three-part podcast series exploring language and gender, "From ‘Mx.’ to ‘hen’: When ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’ words aren’t enough."
NBC News | Culture Matters: "Ms., Mr. or Mx.? Nonbinary teachers embrace gender-neutral honorific"
https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/ms-mr-or-mx-nonbinary-teachers-embrace-gender-neutral-honorific-n960456
This NBC News story from the Culture Matters series shares the stories of educators who identify as neither exclusively male nor female and have found “Mx.” to be a more fitting classroom honorific. The story was published online on 20 January 2019.
NPR | Weekend Edition Sunday: "Oxford Dictionary Proposes Gender-Neutral Title"
https://www.npr.org/2015/05/10/405624481/oxford-dictionary-proposes-gender-neutral-title
This brief story from NPR's Weekend Edition Sunday broadcast on 10 May 2015 announces the introduction of the gender-neutral honorific Mx. to the Oxford English Dictionary.
This brief YouTube video offers tips for English Language Learners on how to address people in English, whether writing letters, emails, or when speaking with them. Includes information about using the Ms. and Mx. honorifics.