Over half of students rank college admissions as their most stressful academic experience.
The following challenges are aspects found in the university application and preparation process that may impact student well-being.
Humans like being able to predict the future, and much of our cognition is shaped to do so. So it makes sense why uncertainty is highly stressful. And uncertainty is even more stressful for adolescents.
In the context of university admissions, this means a great deal of uncertainty. Simply not knowing where one will be living and doing in a year's time in itself is stressful. And if highly selective US institutions are on your list, the increasing competition every year adds a significant amount of uncertainty, and therefore, stress.
Gen Z is already identified to be a more anxious generation than prior ones, due to a phone-based childhood. A phone-based childhood is different to a play-based childhood in a number of ways, and one way is the prevalence of social media. Social comparison is magnified on social media, and university applications are no exception. Searching for 'college decision reactions' on Youtube and 'opening college acceptance letters' on TikTok can open the pandora's box of ecstatic gasps, tears, and hugs. Similar genre is searching for 'Ivy League stats and ecs' on Youtube. It is difficult not to compare oneself to the celebrated creator when consuming such content, which, needless to say, can possibly affect self-esteem. (Read a New Yorker article on this topic. )
And there's also the possibility of comparison with peers in their high school context.
Perfectionism is the "tendency to demand of others or oneself an extremely high or even flawless level of performance", according to the American Psychological Association. 30% of teenagers and young adults may struggle with unhealthy forms of perfectionism, which is troubling because perfectionism is often found to be correlated with negative mental health outcomes.
Perfectionism is on the rise in adolescents, and it's attributed to increasing competition and achievement-based culture. Although this analysis does not pin it to increasing competitiveness in the university admissions landscape per se, the link between neoliberalism, meritocracy, and university competition is easy to make (read more about meritocracy later).
The competition as well as the ease of access to seemingly perfect arcs of university admissions narratives on social media -- are easy breeding grounds for perfectionism in the university application process.
An environmental factor that is linked with perfectionism is parental expectations. Parental involvement to a healthy degree of involvement is a necessary and healthy component in development, but when the care is demonstrated in high degrees of control, pressure, and expectations, it can lead to negative outcomes.
Parental involvement, in the form of control, expectations, or pressure, can be found linked to negative mental health outcomes and academic stress, in both scientific (e.g. Chinese adolescents, Pakistani adolescents, Indian high school students) and news opinion articles (Singaporeans and Asian-Americans). But sometimes, parental expectations is manifest in positive relationship with parental support (Latin American students) or there is an absence of a link between negative mental health outcomes and parental expectations (Norwegian students) so we need to avoid drawing blanket statements. It may be helpful to acknowledge and reflect on deep-seated cultural values from which the familial interactions spring from to better understand your student's family context.
Beyond the confines of the family, societal expectations to attend a prestigious university also vary in different cultural contexts. For instance, in Korea, the social construct of 'hakbeol' that emphasizes "social rankings based on one's educational success" drives students. As with the familial relations, reflecting on the underlying cultural and social construct of education may be helpful to understand your studetns.
The jury is still out on whether the number of homework hours have increased from before, but the amount of workload can possibly impact mental health. Students spend a lot time on homework, sometimes more than 17.5 hours per week. Some researchers say that more than 2 hours of homework may be counterproductive, and "homework" is cited as one of the most common responses to the question of: "right now in your life, what, if anything, causes most stress?". Despite these, the demanding workload is a begrudgingly accepted reality given in rigorous college preparatory curricula such as the IB.
And this doesn't account for university applications themselves that can add hours and hours to an already burdened year of high school. If students apply to multiple countries, which is recently an increasing trend, then that can multiply easily.
Decision making is stressful in itself, and there are many decisions to make in the university application process. Stress is not necessarily a bad thing in itself; in fact, moderate amounts of stress are necessary to serve as impetus to make a decision, but it's when decision-making stress is too high, or too low, that would lead to paralysis.
There are also individual differences in decision-making style: namely, are you a maximizer or a satisficer? Maximizers want to ensure you get most out of the choices one makes, while satisficers take the 'good enough' approach. Maximizing decision making style is unfortunately linked with higher rates of depression, perfection, and self-blame.
Also, having more options can lead to more overwhelm than having less options. So the seemingly endless array of university destinations may be exciting but also stressful.
In the senior year, there is the unavoidable experience of rejection, regardless of how stellar or hardworking of a student you were. Rejection is painful, as humans are wired to be social beings. Given that adolescents are particularly sensitive to social cues, and this may be likely the first time to face a major life challenge like this, the experience of rejection may be a particularly difficult experience. Certain individuals may be extra sensitive to rejection, and the experience may bring about even stronger reactions (which should be referred to the social emotional counselor).
Personality traits can be linked with mental health outcomes. The trusted framework in the field of personality psychology research is the Big 5. It's important to point out that personality psychologists don't categorize individuals are into distinct buckets (e.g. introvert vs extravert in the MBTI), but give scores along a spectrum (score 60 on the introversion-extraversion scale). The diagram in the middle of this article summarises this well, and you can read more about these facets here and here.
Here are some mental health outcomes identified within the field of personality research. Individuals who tends to experience negative emotions more frequently and strongly (high neuroticism) tend to experience lower mental health. If you have higher degrees of self-discipline and control (conscientiousness), then you'd likely enjoy better mental and physical health. Extraverts are less likely to suffer from mood and anxiety disorders. Note that conclusions in psychological studies paint a picture about a tendency of a group but does not necessarily predict an individual's outcome so move away from deterministic reading of these findings.
For the sources of these findings and further readings, refer to the following article for the layperson and for the science.
As college counsellors, you may work with students from diverse backgrounds. They may all come with unique needs shaped by their demographic/sociological factor. Examples include, but are not limited to: socioeconomic status (SES), LGBTQ status, English as an Additional Language (EAL) students, and certain citizenships.
Students from low socioeconomic status groups face psychological barriers not only during the actual university experience, but also in university application process as well. Higher estimated family contribution (EFC) usually means that there will be more universities available to apply and that will open their doors for them (further analysis here). Especially in 2024, the FAFSA bungle made it harder for US domestic students, but the same is also true for domestic Australian students. This paper also shows how lower SES correlates (and being female) correlates with lower confidence in the university application process.
The rest of this section won't launch into such a detailed look into rest of other demographic factors. But on behalf of your students who are members of a minority group (LGBTQ, EAL, international, a certain race etc.), do note the need to look for additional support servicees offered by institutions to which they may be applying. This adds on one extra layer of 'finding the right fit' beyond the usual factors (e.g. climate, size of campus, teaching style, etc.) which takes more time and consideration.
As with the demographic factors, students with special talents have further needs that should be addressed in the application process. Being talented in arts and sports is not necessarily a source of challenge in itself, but if a student decides to pursue these in the next stage of life, finding and securing the necessary specialized type of support may be a source of challenge.
Both applications require additional differentiated steps, on top of the ones required for the regular university application. The budding artist or the talented athlete will need to search for and identify supportive agencies for their unique needs and talents, unless the college counsellor is well-versed in these specialties.
Finally, the meritocratic framework and its perceived fairness unquestioned in the university application process may impact student well-being.
We often assume that the university admissions process is a fair game and hard work & talent is rewarded appropriately, but in fact, it's far from the truth. Socioeconomic status (SES) undoubtedly plays a significant role in increasing one's chances in many ways (e.g. SES correlation w/ higher SAT scores, access to enriched extracurricular choices and learning in general , not requiring financial aid etc). Moreover, the idea of meritocracy itself is not ideal for developing a healthy sense of self-worth, as it can lead to hubris for the 'winners' and humiliation for the 'losers'.
The hyper competitive university admissions process is summed up elegantly in the following quote: “Meritocractic arms race - for those who lack the apparatus of advantaged it is unfair; for those entangled in the apparatus, it is oppressive." (Michael Sandel, Tyranny of Merit.)
A fully-fledged article of mine on this topic will be released and linked here on July 5.