There are two major factors that determine the success or failure of an ultra-athlete in addition to the athletic and mental preparation:
A well-functioning team of supporters who will assist her/him during the race.
A well-functioning social environment - such as a partner and / or family, who support the athlete in everyday life and share the athletes' athletic ambitions and dreams.
Below is a compilation of the qualities that a good supporter should have.
It is not easy to find good supporters. They have to want it, they have to be able to - and then they need to have enough time / holiday to be present during the competition.
Some ultratriathletes are a bit chaotic and not as well-structured as long-distance athletes. Although an ultratriathlon takes much longer, most athletes are much more relaxed. The following things may be expected by a supporter from his / her athlete:
At some point, problems inevitably will occur: the point at which every athlete goes through a crisis. Be it due to fatigue, pain or external conditions like weather or a wheel defect. Here it is beneficial if not only the athlete has a suitable method to deal with it, but also the team knows how it can support the athlete from the outside.
Excerpt from team building for a large competition (RAAM):
“Without revealing too much about the preparation for the race, it might still be mentioned at this point that we had at least one team meeting every month for more than half a year and therefore slowly became a unit in advance. I don't think that there were and are many athletes who prepare so meticulously for this special race and involve the entire crew so early on. We did banal get-to-know and motivational exercises, but we also had discussions that got under the skin about fears and expectations. In retrospect, the foundation stone for future success was certainly laid in the spring, when our team gained momentum from time to time and everyone began to personally identify with the challenge that lay ahead in the summer.
What was the deciding factor in this regard? Certainly also the fact of self-confidence to have a crew attend regular meetings - not an insignificant amount of time for a group of working people - so to speak. Sometimes it was uncomfortable how much commitment was required from the team members and how much the athlete himself was the focus. We also always encouraged the athlete to take his own ambitions seriously and not to forego any detail in preparation, which may later be relevant to success.
It is important, as an athlete, not only to focus on organizing race participation and personal training, but also to expand team building accordingly. One should therefore not neglect to actively "request" the meetings. Starting difficulties in fine-tuning can certainly be avoided with more preparation time and an even more open handling of possible problems in the race.
It is nice that there are people who are willing to work in the team of a single athlete, who are selflessly committed to achieving goals of other people and even find it enriching. Conversely, you do not have to start a multi-day competition with a crew that is not at least largely the case.
A few lines on the question of why an extreme athlete takes his wife or husband to the toughest races in the world.
Some athletes see it as a weakening of the team to have their partners with them because, of course, difficult, sometimes even unsightly moments can occur during a race lasting several days.
Others do not even ask the question, because the partners are very happy not to be involved or even actively work against it. Quite a few relationships may have been broken by this time-consuming passion.
But you can always feel that such a race is strengthening a relationship. The racing adventures thus become part of the shared memories and can perhaps be passed on to children as anecdotes. Then it becomes understandable when you read that all the adventures would never have been experienced without a partner who not only tolerated such spinning mills, but also always actively supported the implementation.
Source: "Go hard or go home" by Daniel Meier, adapted
Source: "Randonnée" by David Misch, adapted