Chapter Five

Oracle Chapter Five

Author: Lorilee Technetium

A Circle Of Completion

The next pages will explore the primary obstacle of the human experience: the soul’s hunger for connection. We are driven to find someone to share our lives with, someone who sees us as we truly are. But if this world is merely a stage, why do we feel this desperate need for love?

The reason is that love acts as a spiritual compass. It is a force that guides us back toward the Great I Am. In a state of true love, partners become mirrors for one another, creating a channel for the energy that surrounds all things. Love allows us to ascend beyond the 'illusion,' reaching for a fulfillment that material things can never provide. It is the act of remembering our origins and reclaiming the perfection of the soul. We strive for a spiritual union so complete that the 'I' becomes 'We.' If the will to find this togetherness drives us all, we must ask what is hindering us so drastically. The barrier is not the lack of people, but the state of our own minds.

To love, honor, and cherish—these are sacred words, yet how many truly understand the weight they carry? We utter these vows on the 'stage' of the wedding day, but how can we honor another if we cannot trust them? How can trust exist where there is no true knowledge? More importantly, how can you truly know your partner if you have not yet discovered yourself?

We vow to stay with another forever, yet we are often unsure of who is even making the promise. In the United States, the divorce rate has climbed to sixty percent. To understand why this rate is so high, we must look at the foundation of the union itself. A relationship requires an unreserved devotion to your partner. Yet, in our current 'lower reality,' people are committing to an illusion. They are committing to a person they do not fully know, with a self they have not yet realized. How can anyone offer a lifetime of devotion without first knowing the soul they are offering?

The rising divorce rate stems from two primary failures: a misunderstanding of the difference between pure and impure love, and a lack of clarity regarding what the soul truly seeks. Many enter relationships expecting a miracle without ever laying a foundation. They attempt to understand a partner before they have begun to understand themselves, resulting in a union built on the shifting sands of the 'lower reality.'

To give love, you must first be able to receive it; to receive it, you must be able to accept it; and to accept love, you must first accept yourself. The keys to the universe are not found in another person, they are within you. When you love, honor, and cherish your own soul, you finally gain the capacity to do the same for another. This begins with the realization of your infinite value. You are a unique and beautiful creation, so cherished by the Great I Am that He sacrificed everything for you. The Creator of the entire universe deems you worthy of the ultimate sacrifice; once you embrace that truth, you will no longer settle for a love that is anything less than His best for you.

As we move through time, our self-understanding becomes the blueprint for everything we build. Before we can commit to the deeper levels of a partner, we must first descend into the deeper levels of ourselves. We must define who we are and, consequently, who we are meant to walk beside.

The tragedy of many relationships is that people are searching for an 'ultimate' connection without a definition of what that means. Driven by a fear of the silence within, they enter unsatisfying unions just to escape loneliness. But an impure relationship, one born of desperation rather than clarity is a house built on sand; it will inevitably fall. Pure love is only possible when you have faced your own reflection and resolved your insecurities. You cannot give your all while you are starving for validation. You cannot fill another’s cup when you are waiting for them to fill your own. That inner void is not a 'partner-shaped' hole; it is a sacred space designed only the higher oneness. When the Great I Am dwells within you, the void vanishes. You are no longer a seeker of completion, but a vessel of it, trusting in the perfect plan He has already set in motion.

To find love, we must first distinguish it from its shadows: lust and attraction. Lust is a shallow, physical gravity, an interest in appearance without the depth of the mind. Attraction goes a step further, creating a magnetic pull between two personalities, yet it lacks the anchor of a long-term covenant. But Love is the profound bonding of those two souls. It begins as they learn to complement one another, connecting on a mental frequency that transcends the surface.

When this mental connection deepens, it matures into a commitment, a dedication of the self that forge a Spiritual Union. This is no longer a mere relationship; it is a transformation into an unbreakable connection ungoverned by the regulations of this mortal stage. A spiritual union is the only bond that is limitless and pure, representing the most intense experience available in this universe. We are drawn to it by divine instinct, for this bond is our primary teacher: it reveals the true essence of our Creator and allows us to taste the higher reality of our origin. It is the heartbeat of the eternal. It is pure, true love.

To grasp the mechanics of spiritual bonding, consider the analogy of an extension cord. If you were to cut that cord in half, the two separate pieces would represent two separate beings. Lust is merely the desire to place those pieces side by side. Attraction is the realization that they share a common purpose. But Love is the act of stripping away the protective casing and intertwining the internal wires. A Spiritual Union occurs only when the cord is plugged in, allowing the energy of the universe to flow through the entire length, establishing a full circuit.

Love has perplexed humanity for centuries, yet the answer is simple: love is a connection of energy. We do not fall in love by a random arrow from a mythical cupid; we fall in love when we synchronize with the energy of another. Purity in love is determined by the depth of this connection; physically, mentally, and spiritually. Impure love is a broken circuit; it is built on the shallow foundation of lust or ulterior motives. It is one-sided, where energy is sent but never returned. True, pure love is a Circle of Completion. Both partners give without expecting to receive, yet both are fulfilled because the energy travels in a continuous loop. It is a divine paradox: by giving everything, you receive the infinite.

One of the primary barriers to pure love is our lifelong programming; we are conditioned to believe that giving must always result in a return. Pure love, however, operates on a divine paradox: it requires you to give everything while expecting nothing. To find this highest frequency of connection, you must audit your own motives. If any reason for staying in a relationship exists besides the simple, profound fact that you love the other person, you are operating within the illusion.

In a pure union, the 'stage' of the world becomes irrelevant. If the money vanishes tomorrow, your joy remains unshaken, for you know that two souls in alignment can conquer any obstacle. If your partner falls ill or their body changes, your commitment does not waver. You realize that the body is merely a vehicle, a temporary suit for the stage, but it is the Spirit you love. Whether they are in peak health or facing physical trial, you stand beside them, facing the tribulations of the lower reality together. If you can envision the most extreme circumstances and know, without a shadow of doubt, that you would still be there, you have found the path. If you cannot, you are still looking at the world through the lens of a transaction, and the Great I Am’s purest love will remain just out of reach.

Whether love is pure or impure, its intensity can be equally overwhelming; both feel undeniably real. To discern between them, you must look past the emotion and examine the depth of the connection across the body, mind, and soul. In the Great I Am’s universe, truth is revealed through action. Pure love always follows through; it is the manifestation of a promise made real. Impure love, however, relies on the high of the sentiment without the weight of the deed.

We must not be deceived by heartfelt words that lack a shadow of substance. While isolated circumstances may occasionally hinder a promise, pure love is defined by a consistent pattern of fulfillment. Actions are the direct reflection of the internal spirit; they are the best metric for understanding the integrity of a bond. When you are interconnected with the right person, the world around you fades. Other interests fall away because your mind has entered into a conjunction with your mate. You are no longer two separate entities navigating the stage alone, but a synchronized union where every thought and wonder is shared.

When pure love is reached, it transcends the individual and moves us into a higher understanding. The perspective shifts: the cup is no longer half empty, but overflowing. The stars deepen in hue, and the complexities of life are laid at our feet. In this state, the 'noise' of the world falls away, and the connection between two souls intensifies until they no longer see fragments of what they need scattered across many people.

Those who cannot commit are often searching for bits and pieces of themselves in the crowd, failing to realize they haven't yet deciphered their own soul's blueprint. They are not yet ready for the 'Circle of Completion.' Pure love requires two halves to become one unit, a spiritual bonding that demands everything a mortal being can give. If a person is divided among many, they are incapable of closing the circuit.

Real love leaves no room for others because it satisfies the spirit to the fullest. It is not a relationship without disagreement, for only a clone thinks exactly as you do. Instead, it is a union where compromise and growth are the natural language of the heart. Love is not the mask of pretending to be what your partner wants; it is the freedom of becoming who you truly are while allowing your partner the same grace. In this higher reality, there are no barriers or restrictions, for your partner instinctively avoids what might hurt you. You become what the other needs simply by being yourself. That is the manifest essence of the Divine.

The next point of our journey deals with the foundation upon which a pure relationship must be built. How can you find the soul that completes the circuit if you do not yet understand the mechanics of your own heart? How can you chart a course toward another if you haven't first located where you stand? To understand yourself, you must descend into your own depths and decipher your true needs, wants, and desires.

No outside source can provide these answers; they are coded within you. When you acknowledge who you are and who you were meant to become, you begin to transition from the 'illusion' into your true self. It is only from this place of authenticity that you can truly love another. This isn't about vanity; it is about an honest reckoning. It is the daily discipline of recognizing your shortcomings and rising above them, while simultaneously honoring your divine self-worth. You must reach a point where you no longer cling to another to feel valuable, but instead stand whole, ready to share that wholeness with another.

In the quiet moments following my transformation, as I learned to center my soul, a wise man shared a poem with me. It served as a beacon during my awakening, and I share it with you now: 

You are Worthy
Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
Do not set your goals by what other people deem important. 

Only you know what is best for you.
Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless. Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life.
Do not give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other. 

Do not be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 

Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give love; the fastest way to lose love is too hold it too tightly; In addition, the best way to keep love is to give it wings. 

Do not dismiss your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose. 

Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way. 

When you look into the mirror, what do you truly see? Move past the petty distractions of the 'lower reality’; the hair, the lips, the physical vehicle. I am asking you to look at the spirit within. Do you like the person staring back at you? Do you like the way you think? This inner reflection is a solo journey; only you hold the keys to your own transformation.Once you have audited your inner traits, begin the work of refining them. You are a masterpiece in progress; you are both the artist and the work. Portray yourself as you wish to be, for as you reconstruct the inner self, the outer reflection will inevitably follow. What we harbor inside always manifests on the surface. If you align your soul with the positive energy of the Great I Am, that confidence will seep into your very personality. When your heart is filled with a higher energy, your self-worth becomes a beacon that shines through everything you do, signaling to the world that you finally know who you are.

The Man In The Glass 

When you get what you want in your struggle for self And the world makes you king for a day,
Just go to a mirror and look at yourself
And see what the man has to say. 

For it is not your father or mother or wife
Whose judgment upon you must pass
The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back from the glass.
Some people might think you are a straight shooting chum And call you a wonderful guy.
But the man in the glass says you‘re only a bum
If you cannot look him straight in the eye
He is the fellow to please never mind all the rest
For he is with you clear to the end
And you‘ve passed your most dangerous test
if the guy in the glass is your friend. 

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years And get pats on the back as you pass
But your final reward will be heartache and tears
if you have cheated the man in the glass. 

Having mastered the art of looking within, you are finally equipped to look into the soul of another. Because you no longer fear your own reflection, you can gaze into the heart of a partner without hesitation. The obstacles have fallen away; you have learned to trust yourself and the Great I Am, and that trust is the bridge that allows you to rely on a partner. You have defined your needs, established your self-respect, and laid the first stone of a foundation built for pure love.

It is a profound mercy to realize that what you once called 'love' was merely an illusion. To believe that the friction and hollow feelings of an impure relationship are 'all there is' would be a tragic limitation of the Divine. If a union does not complement and enhance your spirit, it is far better to acknowledge the truth: it is not the real deal. Do not commit an injustice against your own soul by settling for the 'stage' when the 'reality' is waiting. When you enter a relationship that resonates with your very essence, the search ends. Your partner will not only enhance your world but will act as a mirror, helping you explore new layers of your own being. Through a consistent harmony of words and actions, they will extinguish your fears and prove that you are finally ready for your true mate.

Throughout the Bible, every story and every parable acts as a compass pointing toward one destination: Love. Whether illustrating pure devotion or the tragedies of its absence, the message remains the same. Faith itself is merely an extension of this force. If you have love, you have trust; if you have trust, you have faith. It all returns to the source: “For God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten Son” (John 3:16). The Great I Am is showing you the 'why' behind the sacrifice. It was not for ritual or law; it was for Love.

We often take this for granted, failing to realize that the entire 'show'—the Bible, the history of humanity, and the cosmic conflict itself—is a love story. When Yahusha said to ‘Love Yahuah with all your heart, soul, and mind,’ and to ‘Love your neighbor as yourself,’ He was providing the master key. The first commandment encompasses the first four of the Decalogue; the second encompasses the remaining six. The Ten Commandments are not a cold list of 'Thou Shalt Not’s.' They are a love letter. They are the logic of a relationship: If you love me, you will not betray me. If you love me, you will not lie to me. If you love me, you will protect my heart. The ultimate story of the universe is a romance, and the answer to every question you have ever asked is simply—Love.

The Divine Formula for a Perfect Union

God’s design for a perfect relationship begins with a single priority: Put Yahuah first. In this divine order, the man looks to the Creator for guidance, counsel, and strength. He does not rule by decree, but by example. He leads his wife and children not through hostility, force, or control, but through the quiet power of love. He does not judge her by the 'vehicle' of her physical appearance, nor does he treat her with anything less than the honor she deserves. He follows the pattern of Yahusha, who did not coerce His people, but sacrificed for them. Just as the woman in Revelation represents the Church—the Bride of the Messiah—so too does a marriage represent a living parable of that holy union.

In response, the wife loves her husband with a devotion that makes following him a joy. She seeks to truly know his heart and understand his spirit. Because he is gentle, she listens; because he leads with integrity, she offers him her unreserved respect. This is the 'Circle of Completion' in its highest form: the groom and the bride reflecting the love between Yahusha and His people. If you learn only one lesson in this lifetime, let it be this: True Love is the beginning and the end. Nothing else matters.

Written to you with love,

Lorilee

For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am 

fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:12-13 

Wish 

Once upon the purest wish there was a falling star
An illusion set within the mind, a wish that seemed so far
A day, a week, a year has passed since that starry night
With all the chaos in the midst how do I make things right
A love so pure and understood, and yet I stand alone
Fear and doubt and problems near can cut right to the bone 

Yet, as the stars come out at night and I feel a gentle breeze
I know my wish is heaven sent and it puts my mind at ease
So, as I stand in shadows still and face the bitter cold
I know the time shall come again when life rebirths from old
I follow the stars in a newborn night as they ascend into the sky 

My spirit leaves and follows them into a place on high
I close my eyes and connect with life, a circle of sand and sea
Life fulfilled and understood, to accept and only be
The time will come when this journey I am on, I will finally 

understand 

For now I trust with a child‘s eyes as I take a higher hand 

A love this pure I shall find if I trust a higher guide
And although I cannot understand I shall not run and hide 

So, as I release my petty fears and let them float away
I begin a new journey, the path of a dawning day 

Technetium 

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