Language is a rule governed system of communication in which arbitrary symbols of meaning are organized in a way that they can be used to convey thoughts, ideas, and emotions. How can you help your child learn the foundational skills they need to be effective communicators? First, recognize that there are two main components to language: receptive and expressive. Second, be sure to create lots of opportunities to practice their language skills! Model language use for them by narrating what they are doing and what they may be thinking, expand on their utterances a little bit by adding an adjective or verb, pause and wait to give them a chance to speak, give them choices and reinforce verbal responses, and sabotage them sometimes (for example, when they ask for a toy give them a shoe instead!) to create lots of communication opportunities.
Receptive Language refers to how we understand spoken language, including skills such as following one-step directions and choosing between two objects when given a verbal cue. Help your child learn receptive skills by reinforcing them when they successfully follow your directions (sticker charts, verbal praise, high fives) and give them plenty of opportunities to practice these skills! Give them choices frequently so that they learn to use these skills in many different situations.
Expressive Language refers to verbal and written communication such as labelling, identifying objects, and forming sentences. Model language use that is just a bit more complex than their current level - for example, if your child sees a dog and simply says "dog!", you can say "yes, a big dog" to model use of the adjective big. Or if they say "look, a yellow dog!" you might respond, "yes, the yellow dog is next to his owner!"
Talk to your child as much as you can! Narrate your activities as you go about your daily activities - in the car going over a bridge, say out loud "now we go over the bridge", or while out at the grocery store, "this is a squeaky cart, it goes squeak squeak". Try to model language around things your child is interested in! Do they love cows? Then we love cows! Talk about how the cow they are looking at is spotted, or big, or how she says "moooo".
Still not convinced? Check out this website for 15 ways to encourage expressive language skills with your child. Have a young toddler? Take a look at this detailed document filled with strategies to promote communication.
Learn how to create a language-rich environment even in simple everyday situations such as outdoor walks with SLP Polly!
This short handy handout from Super Duper Publications talks about the causes of speech and language impairments.
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The illustrated book "Sulwe" by Lupita Nyong'o is an excellent introduction to complex topics like bullying, feeling different from others, and accepting yourself.
Below is a set of materials I created to accompany this story, addressing language skills such as vocabulary, comparing and contrasting, social thinking curriculums, synonyms and antonyms, multiple meaning words, and more. The last page is an evidence-based practice map with some examples on language expansions while reading story books with your child. Check it out!
This lesson plan addresses several Ohio Learning Standards for language, including (using first grade common core standards as an example):
RL.1.1 Ask and answer questions about key details in a text.
RL.1.2 Retell stories, including key details, and demonstrate understanding of their central message or lesson.
RL1.3 Describe characters, settings, and major events in a story, using key details.
RL.1.4 Identify words and phrases in stories or poems that suggest feelings or appeal to the senses.
RL1.9 Compare and contrast the adventures and experiences of characters in stories.
The activities below can be adapted for multiple target areas. Get creative with it and remember to create those communication opportunities!
Check out this handy preposition booklet I created for students who are learning how to use words to describe spatial concepts! Use this booklet to both teach your child how to understand and use these words, as well as a nifty reference guide for them as they begin to apply these concepts to other situations. There are blank pages included where you can add your own preposition target, as well as manipulatives to print out and use to teach the concept. Use the space underneath the target words to write down tips to help your child remember what each word means! For example, if they are having difficulty differentiating "behind", write down that behind means some of the picture is hidden - you can't see all of it!
Want to learn more about speech and language developmental milestones? Check out these short 2 page Handy Handouts from Super Duper Publications that illustrate average language development over the course of each year of life.