Most people eat 3 meals a day plus snacks. When mealtime is tough- the day is tough!
Let's start with Step 1: Setting up the correct environment and expectations for mealtime.
Children should be seated correctly to eat meals. Think 90/90/90
The child's hips, knees, and ankles should each be at 90 degrees.
The Critical Importance of Proper Seating for Eating
The significance of the 90-90-90 position extends beyond mere comfort. It plays a vital role in several key areas of a child's development and safety during mealtimes.
1. Enhanced Stability and Core Support: When a child's feet are dangling or they are not properly supported, their body must work harder to maintain balance. This lack of stability can be distracting and tiring, taking focus away from the primary task of eating. By providing a solid base of support with their feet flat, the 90-90-90 position frees up their cognitive and physical energy to concentrate on chewing, swallowing, and self-feeding.
2. Improved Breathing and Swallowing Safety: Proper posture is directly linked to respiratory function. Slouching or an unsupported posture can compress the airway, making it more difficult to breathe and increasing the risk of choking. The upright alignment of the 90-90-90 position ensures an open airway, facilitating safe and efficient swallowing.
3. Better Hand-to-Mouth Coordination: The stability provided by this posture allows for greater control over fine motor skills. When a child feels secure in their seat, they can more easily coordinate the movements required to bring food to their mouth, use utensils, and explore different textures.
4. Promotes a Positive Mealtime Experience: A child who is uncomfortable or struggling to maintain their balance is more likely to become fussy and resistant to eating. The 90-90-90 position creates a sense of security and comfort, fostering a more positive and enjoyable mealtime environment for both the child and the caregiver. This can be particularly beneficial for children who are picky eaters or have sensory aversions to food.
5. Supports Oral Motor Development: The act of chewing and moving food around in the mouth requires a complex set of muscle movements. The stable base provided by the 90-90-90 position allows for a better range of motion in the jaw and more precise tongue movements, which are essential for developing mature chewing patterns.
"I have a high chair but my baby is too small and can't sit up well in it."
This is a common concern! There are some things we can do to adjust your highchair until your baby grows and develops.
-Use a folder blanket or towel to give support around your baby's hips or behind their back.
-Use a board book, block, or small box under your baby's feet if they cannot reach the foot support on their high chair.