Joe Alwyn was the famous 6-year-long relationship partner to Taylor. They met at the Met Gala in 2016 and started dating shortly after Taylor and Tom Hiddleston's split. Many of Taylor's songs (starting from Reputation) are about him, and they continue to be throughout the rest of the albums she's released since Reputation. Joe is from/resides in London, England, and frequently traveled back and forth from England to the US where Taylor lived/did work. They broke up/released it to the public April 2023.
Joe was the only man Taylor has dated in this era…therefore, all love songs have to have some connection to him, as this album is written majority about her own life
Taylor wanted to be with Joe forever, which the term End Game refers to. They were together for 6ish years- much longer than her previous relationships
“I’ve been breaking hearts a long time, and toying with them older guys” is referring to the fact that Taylor would usually date guys older than her…but Joe was actually a year younger than her
Taylor met and talked to Joe for the first time in a dive bar…which is mentioned in this song. The dive bar is also mentioned in Invisible String from Folklore
Taylor met and talked to Joe for the first time in a dive bar…which is mentioned in this song. The dive bar is also mentioned in Invisible String from Folklore and Delicate
Taylor told fans in the Reputation Secret Sessions that if someone tried to say she was already dating someone new for her fans to tell them the song is about her boyfriend of a year (at the time)
“Say you fancy me not fancy stuff” is a lyric, and is referring to the way many people from England say “I love you”...Joe is from London
Taylor told fans in the Reputation Secret Sessions that this song came about after she tried to break up with Joe because of all the Kimye Drama happening, and he straight up told her no
“Flashback when you met me; your buzz cut and my hair bleached” is referring to Taylors “Bleachella” phase when she went to her last known met gala, which Joe also attended…with a buzz cut
This song is expressing the indecisions she kept having when dating Tom Hiddleston and if she wanted to leave him for Joe or not
“I take this magnetic force of a man to be my lover” is a parallel to the song Gorgeous from Reputation which is confirmed to be about Joe
“He got that boy-ish look that I like in a man” can refer to the fact that Joe is a year younger than Taylor, and how it was unusual for her not to date someone who was not older than her
Joe was the only man Taylor has dated in this era…therefore, all love songs have to have some connection to him, as this album is written majority about her own life
Joe was the only man Taylor has dated in this era…therefore, all love songs have to have some connection to him, as this album is written majority about her own life
Taylor had bought an apartment on Cornelia Street in New York for her a Joe to live in
It’s pretty obvious…at the time he was the only dude she dated that currently resides in England
The “West Village” is mentioned in a lyric, which is in England
Taylor was learning new things about her new relationship with Joe after her unhealthy previous relationships…this can be tied to Dancing With Our Hands Tied, which Taylor expressed to fans that the song came out of her trying to break up with Joe because of her drama and wrong-doings
This song takes the same kind of story line from Invisible String from Folklore of which it was a slow falling in love with Joe and the beginning of the relationship
“Back in forth from New York” is describing her constant moving around from living in London and New York because of/with Joe during their relationship
The title refers similarly to the theory of “End Game”, which is a song rumored to be about Joe from Reputation
Many lyrics point specifically to Joe; working at a yogurt shop and the “Dive Bar” reference that is also included in Delicate from Reputation
This song references many traits about Taylor’s at-the-time new and improved relationship from her previous ones
The Lakes are an area in England, where Joe resides, as well as The Lakes is mentioned in Invisible String
“I'm begging for you to take my hand wreck my plans, that's my man” can be referring to when she met Joe she was still currently dating Tom Hiddleston–which was a rebound/infidelity case after/during her dating Calvin Harris
gold rush has the same undertones of meanings as Gorgeous from Reputation– Gorgeous is confirmed to be about Joe
“The old men that I've swindled really did believe I was the one” points to the fact of all her past lovers at the time before Joe, and also how Joe is younger than her–she usually dates older men
“I was in the alley, surrounded on all sides
The knife cuts both ways” refers to “I brought a knife to a gun fight” from Call It What You Want and “Throw out our cloaks and our daggers because it’s morning now” from Daylight
“All they keep asking me ‘is someone gonna be your bride?” is referring to when the press was constantly trying to rumor and speculate more about the state of Joe and Taylor’s relationship. She also explained in an Instagram reel (now removed) the meaning of the song and talked about her current 6 year relationship, which we know is with Joe, even though he was not named
Taylor says this song is about falling in love unexpectedly which has the same theme as the theme present in Invisible String from Folklore
Once again, Taylor's talking about the being lost in herself and coming out of breakups and being heartbroken and eventually finding long term and comfortable love from Joe at the time
Joe is an official co-writer to this song credits, which can be inferred that the song about the relationship
It can only be assumed that this is about Joe–the way she most likely went about getting into their relationship seems to be along the lines of the topic of this song
This song is describing the drama battle both Taylor and Joe went through during her Reputation Era–and how he helped her through it
“No I didn’t see the news 'cause we were somewhere else” referring to the escape from the media Taylor found in her relationship with Joe
“I’ll go back to wanting dudes who give nothing” is referring to her past [toxic] relationships that she did not find happiness in and usually criticized her partner for any lack thereofs