"1. I have control of myself and my actions. If I want to get better and commit to that, it can happen. What I can’t do is control the actions of others. 

2. That being said, I can try to positively influence others by showing a way forward and providing examples of what has worked versus pointing consistently to the flaws of others. I can’t control the actions of others, but I can do my best to provide examples that are aspirational instead of detrimental." 

~ George Couros 

Couros, G. (n.d.). Creating a Positive Space to Move Forward. George Couros: Changing the Trajectories of Those We Serve. https://georgecouros.ca/blog/archives/13580