Sometimes in relationships, you can get so close that the spark starts to fade. The best way to rekindle the spark is to miss you and remember what made him fall in love with you. Relationships also end mutually before you sometimes need to.
You can make you miss your ex-boyfriend and remember what it was like when the relationship was good. To make him miss you no matter what, create space, control communication, and use subtle cues like scents, spontaneity, and intentionally "forgotten" possessions to make him think of you when you're not around. Soon your man should crave you and crave that passion again.
1. Stop calling or texting him. If you constantly call and text him, he won't have time to think about missing you. Take a break from daily phone time and wait for him to call or text. When you stop calling or texting, he will wonder why, and it will cause him to think about you and miss you.
When you're not talking to her, go about your day. Go to class or work, spend time doing hobbies, or watch TV. Do something to prevent yourself from checking your phone, which will make you less likely to respond if it's texted or called you.
2. Wait a bit before returning his calls or texts. When we like someone, we usually jump at the chance to return their phone calls and text messages because we're so excited. If you want a guy to miss you, you have to create that moment of desire for your response.
When he calls you, don't answer and let him go to voicemail. Wait a few minutes, then call him back and tell him you couldn't answer because you were really busy.
After receiving a text message, wait about 5-10 minutes before replying. This will give him time to start yearning for your response and to start thinking about what you could do without him.
You don't always have to, but every once in a while, keep the text messages and phone calls you have with him short and to the point.
3. Limit social media posts. If you're someone who constantly updates social media with your activities, try limiting the number of posts you post. Social media posts are an easy way for people to stay connected and never feel like they miss you. When you post less, your guy will start to miss learning what's going on in your life.
Also, limit communication with your man on social media. If you use social media to talk to him when you're not together, stop that form of communication for a while. He will want to hear from you and hopefully will contact you when he starts to miss you.
4. End the conversation first. Start hanging up the phone or terminating the text discussion before he does, especially if you're used to being the last person to say goodbye. Being the first to stop the discussion will leave him wanting more and keep you on his mind until the next time he speaks with you.
1. Find a signature scent. Find a subtle scent to wear whenever you're with your man. He will begin to associate that smell with you, and it will give him another meaning that you will miss. When you're not with your man, he'll start to miss your scent and crave your signature scent.
Make sure you don't wear too much or it might be put off by the strong smell. Wear just enough to be felt when someone is very close to your body.
To create this effect with a scent, you need to wear the same scent every time you are around it.
It also works when you want your ex-boyfriend to miss you. If you show up at a place where he's wearing the perfume you used to wear, he'll instantly associate it with the time he spent with you.
2. Be mysterious and surprising. If you're a complete open book when you first meet a guy, it won't leave him with anything to be surprised about. Instead, you should tell an interesting fact about yourself every time you get together. It will leave your man wanting to know more about you and waiting to find out what new thing he will learn next.
Be spontaneous with him. If you usually go out for dinner on dates, take him out on an adventure like rock climbing one day. This spontaneity will excite him and make him guess what you want to do next.
Don't always tell him how you feel and what you think, let him wonder about you. You want to guess it!
3. Leave things in his car or at his residence. If you accidentally leave one of your belongings at your man's house or in his car, it will constantly remind you. When he calls you back, he will start thinking about you and missing being with you. Small personal items that you don't need on a daily basis work best to create that subtle reminder of you.
A hairbrush
Jewelry
Reconcile
A pen or notebook
A little picture
4. Let him want more. Whenever you date your man, you should always leave him wanting more. You just want to leave him wanting more of you, so you give him more kisses, laughter, fun, and chats. You can do this by taking your time and having clear time limits with your time together.
Cut conversations because you have to get home at a certain time.
Only give her a gentle kiss at the end of the night to make her dream of wanting more kisses.
Be in control of your personal curfew hours. You'll probably want to spend more time with him, but if you leave on time, you'll make him want more time with you.
1. Create space between you and him. You can't miss a guy if you're always there for him. A great way to make him miss you is to create space between the two of you. If you spend every minute of the weekend with him, start making time to spend away from him.
Instead of hanging out with your partner on a Friday night, stay at home alone or with pals. At first, he'll probably like spending time alone, but if you start doing it regularly, you'll start to miss yourself in his arms.
2. Go out with friends and talk to him. Start having date nights with your friends and then tell your man how much fun you had. He'll probably be happy for you, but he'll also be a little jealous of the fun you can have without him. If you spend a few weekends having fun with friends, you will soon start to miss being the person having fun with you.
It works just as well with an ex-boyfriend. When an ex sees that you're having fun and enjoying life without him, he'll start to miss being in your life.
3. Use social media to highlight the fun you're having on your own. Start posting photos and status updates about your enjoyment of doing things on your own. This works great when trying to make an ex miss you. Show how much you appreciate life on your own, and your man will be begging you to hang out with you because he misses you so much.
Don't be fake on social media, just highlight how much fun you have hanging out with friends and taking part in activities on your own.
4. Get yourself a makeover, then go see it. Treat yourself to a new hairstyle and new clothes to make you look and feel good. Get dressed, then go meet your man somewhere. He will be surprised at your new look and will want to see you more.
If you want your ex-boyfriend to miss you, show up with your new look somewhere you know he will be. Walk past him looking awesome and as confident as ever. It will make him wish he was still with you and miss the time he was in your life.
1. Try to make her miss it to help her see how special you are. Flirting with a guy you like by dressing up, using smelly perfume, showing him you have a great social life, etc. can help him see that you are interested - and interesting. There's no harm in playing a little hard to get, as long as you don't feel too consumed trying to get his attention.
2. Switch to simple communication when you're ready to do more. Missing him might turn your head at first, but eventually, he'll get bored if you wait forever to respond to his texts or avoid him too long between dates.
He might also figure out your plot to make you miss out if you spend too much time bragging about how much fun you have without him. Instead of finding new ways to make you miss, try telling her how you really feel.
3. Avoid making your ex-boyfriend miss you as a way to manipulate him. It's normal to want your ex to miss you when you're gone, especially if you're the one who was dumped. However, if you focus too much on making him miss, you'll likely end up backfiring.
You will be too obsessed with what he thinks when instead you should move on. Give yourself and him a break and don't try to manipulate him after he's already broken up.
Always be authentic and true to yourself. If you feel like you have to fake it with your boyfriend, chances are he's not the one for you. Find someone who would love you just the way you are.
Act only in a way that makes you feel comfortable with yourself. You don't have to do anything for him or with him if you don't really want to or don't feel ready to do it.
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