3AM to 3PM
Saturday, September 7, 2024
Steam
2 Hour Play Session (Roughly, technically 1 1/2 Hour Session)
Venba is a short, yet fulfilling game about a mother who moves to Canada from South India in the 1980s with her husband. Its a game where you get to experience not only the victories of this family, but also the challenges and struggles they face in a foreign country. You also, get to cook! A fun mechanic of the game that teaches you a little bit of the South India culture, while also showing you dynamics of this growing family.
When you first get introduced to the characters, you meet Venba, the soon-to-be mother and her husband Paavalan. Where you already get to see the struggles of trying to get a full-time job for the husband and how Venba struggles to get more shifts at the school she works at. You also learn, that she is sick- which turns out to be her being pregnant! There's a discussion between the two that covers on doubts and worries about their future, whether or not they should stay in Canada, etc. You also get to make something called a idilis, which is the type of food that doesn't take a lot of effort, but you get a lot out of it.
Time has passed and they now have a boy! Who is named Kavin, and we already get to see how living in an English dominated country is affecting him, as he talks more in English than in their native language, Tamil. We get to see Paavalan making a phone call, seeming to struggle to understand whoever is talking, as he is trying to get a job. We also witness Venba having to ask Kavin to speak in Tamil, and also find out that Kavin's friend call him Kevin. But, you get to make something together called a puttu which is kinda like a rocket!
This one is a bit of a sadder one, as it starts out with Kavin talking in english to someone, asking about his dad. Something to note is that some of the speech bubbles where spotty, like something had been splattered- which could signify the negativity of the words. You get to learn about how Venba and Paavalan meet as Venba and Kavin go looking for him, where you find a scene that looks pretty gnarly- as Paavalan looks like he got beat up.
Now we see Kavin graduated, and about to head out for university, we get to make something called biriyani, which is a rather complex meal to put together but very rewarding once completed. As they eat together you get to see how there seems to be a distance between them, the spotty text coming back in the conversation had. Kavin even making a comment about how he doesn't want to smell like "little india."
Very unfortunately, Paavalan has passed away. And we get to see that Venba is going to be visited by Kavin, so she makes him a whole feast- fried batter thats in the shape of swirls, some more fried food in the shape of balls, which could be a type of bread. She also makes some delicious looking soup with some peppers and what looks like basil leafs, some heavily spiced fish, a stew with some sort of meat, maybe pork? As well as some fried chicken legs. All of which looks delicious, but, unfortunately, Kavin does not make it.
Kavin has graduated and Venba has moved back to India it seems, we get some more insight on why Kavin acted the way he did, and it seems he might be feeling guilty about it all. We get to see him try to cook something, using Venba's cookbook which she has restored mostly, we see Kavin can't read Tamil very well. But we also get to see him realize and remember things in his past.
Which leads us to the final chapter, where Kavin is being taught to make Dosa, by his mom. The two are then seen sitting on a porch and having a heart to heart, where we get to see Kavin talk to his mom and apologize for not being there for her, and she gets to admit that she moved away because she didn't want him to feel suffocated. Its a very sweet, nice ending as the two reconcile.
(Venba and Paavalan, discussing worries and hope)
(Cooking puttu together as a family)
(Venba and Paavalan watching Kavin leave for university)
(Kavin and Venba talking in the final scene)
While this game is quite the fun cooking game, it is also a learning experince and has some rather deep topics inside of it. Not only do we get to learn about the culture, we get to see the hardships this family goes through, and the way the struggle to adapt to this new world, where the language is not the same as theirs, the customs, clothing- its all so different from their own. I think some anthropological concepts would definitely be the culture aspect of it, but also we see assimilation, and a struggle to find ones identity and to keep ones identity.
As immigrants from Southern India, we already see the struggle Venba has with adjusting to the language, and we see how Paavalan struggles with obtaining a decent job, all because his work experince is different from others, and not 'up to par' with what the American work places ask for. We even see him comment, about how he doesn't have 'Canadian work experince'. We watch as the two struggle with the idea of moving back to India, where they might face more prejudice against their union- the main reason why they moved to Canada, so that they could be together without the pressure to follow what others had in store for them. With the many opportunities Canada brought, such as a better education, it also brought its hardships. For instance, Kavin knowing so English more than his own native language, an issue that Venba has, where she feels as if she cannot communicate with her son and that there is a wall growing between them as he seems to want to put his culture behind and become 'normal'. This could potentially be called assimilation, as he is giving up his identity to conform with the identity others put upon him, going so far as to demand being called Kevin when he was younger. You can see he becomes embarrassed by his culture, something we see later on he even comments on how he was embarrassed to eat the food his mother made for him in front of people. But you also see how Venba tries so hard to keep her culture strong within her home, having decorations up, fixing up her mothers recipe to make her native food, she even tries to share the food with Kavin's friends before he goes off to college, having made enough that he could bring with him and share with his friends- a rather innocent gesture yet Kavin denies it and pushes her and his father further away.
But soon Kavin does come around, using the recipe book his mother fixed up, he makes a dish that he remembers having when he was younger and sick, while struggling to read Tamil, his native tongue, another sign of his lost of identity, he manages to make it and seemes to realize that his mother was struggling too, her own mother- his grandmother being sick and soon passing it away it seems. We get to see him go visit his mother in India, her teaching him how to cook and cheering him on, the two seeming to reconcile. He mentions how he was always inspired by his dad as a writer, but even though he had a good writing gig, gave it up because he felt like he was using his culture as a sudden convience, and he felt guilty about it when he had always tried so hard to distance himself from it. I remember realizing in this final scene as well that he was wearing his dads glasses, which I thought was very bittersweet. But Venba then mentioned about how she decided to move back to India, not because her son had hurt her, but because she thought it would be better for him if she gave him some distance and time, which seemed to work out in the end.
I found myself relating a bit to this game surprisingly, as I have always felt a bit distant from my own culture(s), which I don't know a lot about and even don't know if I could call myself to be apart of that culture. But it was so heartwarming to watch this family, even though they struggled, persevere through it all and come out smiling and in the end, happy. While I definitely got a little teary eyed at some points, I remember the joy I felt when Kavin finally talked to Venba and the two shared a moment of happiness and memories, which just made me love the game even more. I also really loved the little details of the text bubbles, like how when Kavin, when he was younger, spoke slower in Tamil unlike how quickly he talked in English. Plus, the food made me so hungry!
Some questions that came to mind,
Could this be another example of teaching people about different cultures?
Could this game be used not only to remind people about how important family is, but culture as well?
Could this be an opportunity to bring to light the struggles immigrant families go through?
Could this enlighten people on those struggles, and perhaps used to inspire people to help those families and help create a better system for them?
How many immigrant families have lost children to the force of the American system? To prejudice against their culture?
How many families have felt threatened about being themselves? That they had to hide who they are?