Have you ever tried to look someone in the eye for an extra-long time?
At that moment you suddenly feel a lot of tension building up. And that tension ensures that he will find you even more interesting.
Eye contact is incredibly powerful. From a distance, it indicates that someone really sees you and is busy with you in the head.
And if you face each other, it makes everything much more intense. You are completely focused on each other and you create a kind of bubble in which only the two of you exist.
More than a hundred years ago it was not done to address a man as a woman or to consciously attract his attention ... Fortunately, the ladies had found something:
They walked very subtly alongside the man they liked and dropped their white handkerchief (allegedly by accident).
After which the man, gallant as he was, picked it up and followed her:
Young lady, you drop your handkerchief!
And so she had ensured that he approached her very cleverly.
Nowadays we don't do that anymore ...
But how do you ensure that he appeals to you?
As you read before, men are not as socially intelligent when you give him a hint by making eye contact.
In addition to the fact that the courage drops him in the shoes with the idea of addressing such a nice woman as you.
So make it even clearer to him. This is the rule:
Make eye contact three times
The first time he thinks it's a coincidence.
The second time he dares not to take the risk.
And the third time he knows for sure. This is no longer a coincidence.
Make sure, when you make eye contact, that you do not immediately look away again. Just show him that you like it that he looks back.
Hold the eye contact for a moment and smile at him.
Then the average man must pick up your hints.
And you know, eye contact is also easy and safe.
Every man also likes to get attention from a distance and to feel attractive.
Even if they are not actually interested in you.
If you talk to him, make sure you look at him longer than you normally would. You create a very sensual tension between you.
There are even entire workshops that revolve around getting to know each other by looking into each other's eyes for a long time. This is called eye gazing . Thereby it is always recommended to look into the left eye of the other because this person is more in contact with the more emotional right hemisphere.
Don't make a competition out of it. It is great to be the first to look away again. If you keep eye contact for too long and he has to break it all the time, you will come across as dominant .
There is nothing more exciting for a man than a woman who fantasizes about him.
When you make eye contact and bite your lips lightly , you drive him crazy. It has something animal and naughty when you as a woman do this.
It is best to also bend your head down a little so that you look out of the corner of your eye.
This suggests vulnerability and that makes him feel extra masculine.
The same applies if you play with your hair while making eye contact with him.