What you can expect from me

1. I will be fair and honest with you at all times
2. I will do what I said I would do
3. I will not tell you what to do
4. I will not force you to do something you don't want to do
5. I will not do this for you
6. I will apply my knowledge, experience, expertise & connections for your benefit
7. If I feel that I am not the best person to work with you I will endeavour to find a replacement

What would I like from you?

• To be fair and honest at all times
• To do as you said you would do
• Take responsibility for the changes you want to make

These are the habits as a community coach I will apply

Habit 1: Tell others what to do only if they have asked us to do so. (DON’T assume others will always want to know what we think)

Habit 2: Recognise when others say stop, and stop. (DON’T find ways to increase the pressure to make others do as we say).

Habit 3: When things are not going our way, we ask ourselves… what are we missing? (DON’T keep going ignoring what others say.)

Habit 4: We can make choices to minimise the spread of badwill to ourselves and others. (DON’T give more badwill back)

Habit 5: When things go wrong, we can make choices to nudge ourselves to a better place where we feel less of a victim. (DON’T blame others)

Habit 6: We can make choices to give goodwill to ourselves and others. (DON’T think the greater good is always more important than our own self)

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