As we process our feelings and face our privilege, we often feel inspired and driven to take action. For young people, this can feel daunting because your age can make it feel like you have so little power. Years ago, it was unbelievable to imagine young people in charge of big political changes. Yet there are so many examples of youth activism now that you can draw inspiration from.
who made the Forbes Under 30 List at just 12 years old for her activism around diverse representation in books and media
These big names of youth activism aren't the only young people changing the world they live in. Lots of young people are responsible for changes, both big and small, happening all over the country and world. You don't have to become a world-famous activist to impact your community. You do have to start somewhere!
Sometimes, when we think of activism, we imagine the big moments that make the news, like the protests after George Floyd's murder or the passage of laws that protect people. Yet, there are many levels on which individuals can take action and our impact is dependent on who and what we're trying to influence and change.
Below is a diagram of the three levels on which you can take action and how you can have an impact.
Changing yourself is the easiest: you have 24/7 access to your own mind and you're really likely to listen to yourself. As you move outward to the other levels, you have less control and influence, but the impact on the whole issue of systemic racism is bigger. This is why it is important to do the work on each level! To be a co-conspirator means to live a truly anti-racist lifestyle in every space we occupy.
In what ways am I already doing anti-racist work on myself?
In what ways am I already doing anti-racist work in my communities? In which communities am I doing the work?
In what ways am I already doing anti-racist work toward the larger cause?
Last week, we spent some time processing our emotions using the NICE method:
Name your emotions and what triggered them
Investigate the thoughts that created them
Clarify how you can and will respond
Emerge ready to turn feelings into action
Now, it's time to put the fourth step into play. Our feelings can tell us a lot about what kind of internal work we have to do. Below are some questions to ask yourself when you want to turn your feelings into action.
Think back to your emotional work from last week. What kind of internal work do you need to do?
So what does it look like to get uncomfortable, find your focus, check your ego, or own your impact? Below is a list of SOME actions you can take to do that internal work.
In what ways am I already doing anti-racist work on myself?
In what ways am I already doing anti-racist work in my communities? In which communities am I doing the work?
In what ways am I already doing anti-racist work toward the larger cause?
In a journal or in conversation with another White person doing this work:
Looking at the graphic above in the square for your internal work, ask yourself:
Which of these actions am I already taking?
Which do I need to take?
Create a list of action items for your internal work.
You might be thinking:
I have so much work to do on myself before I'm ready to take action in my community!
It can feel like we need to know everything before we can take action, but as poet Maya Angelou said, "Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." So even as we work through the internal work, we have to also be doing the external work of addressing racism in our communities and our society.
There are a few reasons people don't jump right into taking external action:
They're scared they'll make a mistake
They're not sure where to start
They're trying to take on too much
Even though taking external action can be scarier because our mistakes might cause harm, it is a privilege to feel like you don't have to take action when you see injustice. Because your life is not at risk, you can choose not to take action. As we learned, though, we cannot just accept a position of privilege.
So, where do you start when you want to take action? Take a look at the steps below for taking action:
We're going to break down two possible scenarios to see how this process works. You can follow along with two example scenarios, then you'll try it alone.
In the grey sections, you can follow how I go through Scenario #1.
In the blue section, you'll try the process with Scenario #2.
Your school's dress code policy includes a rule that you cannot wear bandanas or scarves on your head. A lot of the Black kids at your school are angry about this. Some Black athletes wear bandanas to hold their hair out of their eyes while they play. Some Black students wear scarves to protect their hairstyle.
Who is being harmed?
Black students who want to protect their hair or wear their hair in certain styles.
How are they being harmed?
The policy only hurts Black students and holds them back from having the freedom to wear their hair naturally or in certain styles.
You're with a group of White friends. One White person in the group makes a joke that uses a stereotype about Latinx people. Your other friends laugh along at the joke. Another friend adds on another joke using another stereotype about Latinx people
In a journal or in conversation with another White person doing this work answer the questions below :
Who is being harmed?
How are they being harmed?
Does this situation call for supporting the people who are harmed, changing the harmful conditions to prevent further harm, or both?
If the Black students are already organizing or submitting complaints, I could support them. If not, I could take action to change the harmful conditions by pushing for the policy to be changed.
What specific change do I want my action to impact?
I want the school to get rid of the policy.
You're with a group of White friends. One White person in the group makes a joke that uses a stereotype about Latinx people. Your other friends laugh along at the joke. Another friend adds on another joke using another stereotype about Latinx people
In a journal or in conversation with another White person doing this work answer the questions below :
Does this situation call for supporting the people who are harmed, changing the harmful conditions to prevent further harm, or both?
What specific change do you want your action to impact?
Who holds to power to end this injustice?
The principal of the school decides the dress code policy, so I will need to get them to change it. Having other students on board will be helpful for that.
You're with a group of White friends. One White person in the group makes a joke that uses a stereotype about Latinx people. Your other friends laugh along at the joke. Another friend adds on another joke using another stereotype about Latinx people
In a journal or in conversation with another White person doing this work answer the questions below :
Who holds to power to end this injustice?
What does that mean about the action you'll take?
What are my superpowers and how could I use them to take action?
I'm a really good writer so I could write a letter with evidence to convince the principal.
I'm also friends with a lot of people who I could get to sign onto the letter.
My parent is on the PTA, so they might be able to get me a meeting with the principal or share it with other parents to get support.
You're with a group of White friends. One White person in the group makes a joke that uses a stereotype about Latinx people. Your other friends laugh along at the joke. Another friend adds on another joke using another stereotype about Latinx people
In a journal or in conversation with another White person doing this work answer the questions below :
What are my superpowers and how could I use them to take action?
What kinds of risks are involved?
Reputation: I don't usually speak up to authority figures so this might make my principal and teachers see me as more argumentative or disrespectful.
Relationship: My action might make my principal uncomfortable.
How will I handle these risks?
Reputation: I am trying to learn to stand up for what is right, so I am okay with adults thinking I'm more argumentative or disrespectful if I'm fighting against racist policies.
Relationship: My principal might yell at me or write me off, but I will persist and stay calm by reminding myself that they are reacting to their discomfort.
You're with a group of White friends. One White person in the group makes a joke that uses a stereotype about Latinx people. Your other friends laugh along at the joke. Another friend adds on another joke using another stereotype about Latinx people
In a journal or in conversation with another White person doing this work answer the questions below :
What kinds of risks are involved?
How will I handle these risks?
Who will be involved in your action? Do you need adult help?
I will see if any of my Black friends would like to partner with me in creating the letter and gathering signatures. My parent can help us get adult support and maybe get a meeting with the principal to share the letter.
What action are you planning to take?
I will write a letter to explain to the principal why this policy is racist, get signatures from as many of my peers as possible, then share the letter with the principal.
When and over what time period will you take action ?
I find someone to partner with me to write the letter this week. We will spend the week after that getting signatures. We will try to get a meeting with the principal in three weeks.
Where: What space or community will you be impacting?
I'll be impacting my school community.
How: What resources do you need?
I need a way to send out the letter and get people to sign, maybe a paper copy for school or find a digital way to send it or share it on social media?
How: What steps will you take to make it happen?
Find out if any of my Black friends would like to partner with me in creating the letter and gathering signatures.
Draft the letter.
Get a trusted adult to read and give feedback on the letter.
Revise the letter.
Share the letter on social media and allow people to tell me if they'd like to sign.
Bring a signature sheet to school and get signatures before school, during lunch, and after school.
Get my parent to help me make an appointment with the principal.
Meet with the principal.
You're with a group of White friends. One White person in the group makes a joke that uses a stereotype about Latinx people. Your other friends laugh along at the joke. Another friend adds on another joke using another stereotype about Latinx people
In a journal or in conversation with another White person doing this work answer the questions below :
Who will be involved in your action? Do you need adult help?
What result do you want from your action?
When and over what time period will you take action?
Where: What space or community will you be impacting?
How: What resources do you need?
How: What steps will you take to make it happen?
Taking action can be scary because of the risks we have to take. There are many "safe" ways to take action in our communities that don't require us to get uncomfortable or put our privilege on the line. However, the "safe" ways are significantly less effective. This is the difference between being an ally and a co-conspirator.
For instance, in Scenario #2, where a White friend makes a racist joke. An ally might notice that it's wrong and maybe even talk to the friend who made the joke about it privately. A co-conspirator would tell their friend directly in the whole group so everyone understands that it's harmful even just to laugh. The co-conspirator would have the patience to have the conversation and answer questions, but also take the risk to be unliked in that moment.
In the video below, Bettina Love explains the difference between an ally and a co-conspirator, as well as what it means to take a risk with your privilege.
Dr. Love reminds us that:
"Whiteness is like a bank...your ATM card just replenishes itself. So spend it. As the kids say, 'cash out.' It comes right back."
So the question is, how can you cash out your privilege in the spaces you occupy?
She also reminds us that there are different levels of risk.
There are big risks, like:
organizing a walk out
giving up an opportunity so someone else can have it
confronting authority figures.
There are small risks, like:
addressing a classmate
sharing a resource
backing up a Black peer's argument in a group setting
You have to know what level of risk you are willing to take. You also should know the level of risk you want to be ready to take someday.
Consider the action you planned for Scenario #2.
Do you think you took a big enough risk?
Is there a bigger risk you could have taken?
How would a bigger risk change the impact of your action?
Sometimes, it's easy to get caught up in the excitement or attention that can come from taking action. However, as White folks, it's important to remember that anti-racism is not about making us feel better, it is about making the world a better, safer place for BIPOC folks. So here are some questions to ask yourself if you're not sure if your action is centering BIPOC lives.
Use the document below to plan an action based on an injustice you see in your community!
Anti-Racism Every Day Action Plan (Click Make a copy!)
WEEK 4
Internal Work: the work we do on ourselves to become better people and co-conspirators
External Work: the work we do in our communities and societies to make the world a better place
WEEK 3
White Supremacy Culture: the attitudes, values, beliefs, and ways of being created to justify and uphold racism and keep White folks in power
Decentering: taking privileged groups out of the spotlight to focus on the experiences, feelings, and needs of marginalized groups
WEEK 2
Dominant Culture: groups of people labeled as "normal" in a society because they have the most power to say what's normal because they historically have the power to make the laws
Subordinate Culture: groups of people who don't fit the narrow definition of "normal" created by the dominant culture
Privilege: the benefits people get from holding an identity that is part of the dominant culture
Marginalized: when a group of people is treated as insignificant, powerless, or lesser because of their identity
White Privilege: the benefits White people get simply for being White
Common Decency: the opportunity, kindness, and trust given to privileged people that everyone else should have
Unearned Power: imbalances of power that allow privileged people to get away with harmful actions.
WEEK 1
White Supremacy: the ways that our society is built to create a hierarchy with White folks on top. It is the ways the laws, norms, and expectations of our society put White people first, while harming Black people , Indigenous people, and People of Color (BIPOC).
Oppression: unjust treatment and harm over a long time due to your belonging to a group that has less power.
Interpersonal Harm: hurt done by one person to another.
Systemic Oppression: harm done by systems like laws, institutions (education, medicine, prison), and societal norms
Anti-Racism: actively working to end systemic racism by changing your thoughts, actions, and the society around you
Active Ally: someone who is against racism, mostly in their thoughts and words
Accomplice: someone who is against racism through their actions and behaviors
Co-conspirator: someone who is actively working with BIPOC communities to end racism by taking risks in their daily lives
Talk: Talk to a friend or family member about what injustices you observe in your community or school. Ask them, "What seems unfair in our community?" and "What do you think we should do about it?" You might see something new by hearing what others observe!
Learn: Choose one action from your internal work list to commit to beginning this week.
Act: Try enacting an action plan this week to take an external action. You can use the one you wrote up in the last activity break, write up another one (just click on the link again!), or try acting in the moment when something comes up.