In 1938, Harvard University began following 724 participants as part of the longest-running study on human development in history. The study was developed to determine what makes us happy. The study explored every part of who we are, from physical and psychological traits to social life and IQ, to learn how we can flourish. Findings from the study were that happiness and health aren’t a result of wealth, fame or working hard, but come instead from our relationships.
Give time: put more time aside to connect with friends and family.
Be present: it can be tempting to check your phone, Facebook messages or even work emails when with family and friends. Try to be present in the moment and be there for your loved ones, and switch out of work mode whenever possible.
Listen: actively listen to what others are saying in a non-judgemental way and concentrate on their needs in that moment.
Be listened to: share how you are feeling, honestly, and allow yourself to be listened to and supported.
Recognise unhealthy relationships: being around positive people can make us happier; however, our wellbeing can be negatively affected by harmful relationships, leaving us unhappy. Recognising this can help us move forward and find solutions to issues.