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The Rules of the Conversational Road / Putting Your Best Foot(note) Forward
Rules for Life-giving Conversation
Respectful and actively engaged.
Acknowledges the other's truth and ideas.
Critiques with sensitivity and compassion.
Confidently express your own thoughts and ideas while at the same time listens deeply to others.
Understands basic ground rules observed by the community for the flourishing of conversation.
~ Image from Bridget Reed, "Small Talk: What it is and When is it Appropriate?" Poised, accessed March 2, 2025, https://www.poised.com/blog/small-talk.
So ... what might that mean for research and writing?
Developing your research skills
Strengthens critical thinking.
Demonstrates and assures the reader that you've done your due diligence in the subject area; you understand the subject and can confidently contribute to the conversation in your own words.
Shows a willingness to engage sources that both agree with and challenge your research question. You respect the insights of others and are open to challenge and growth as you participate in the creation of knowledge.
Proper citation skills
Acknowledges the work and influence of others.
You treat your conversation partners with respect and "play by the rules" agreed upon among academics in your field.
Protects against the charge of plagiarism.
Caring about the details of citation style assures your conversation partners that you've paid similar attention to the details of your research and argument.
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