It's natural to feel sad, down, or discouraged at times. We all feel these human emotions, they're reactions to the hassles and hurdles of life. Most of the time, people manage to deal with these feelings and get past them with a little time and care. However, depression is more than occasionally feeling blue, sad, or down in the dumps, though. Depression is a strong mood involving sadness, discouragement, despair, or hopelessness that lasts for weeks, months, or even longer. Depression affects more than a person's mood. It affects thinking, too. It interferes with the ability to notice or enjoy the good things in life. Depression drains the energy, motivation, and concentration a person needs for normal activities.
Negative feelings and mood. People with depression might feel unusually sad, discouraged, or defeated. They may feel hopeless, helpless, or alone. Some people feel guilty, unworthy, rejected, or unloved. Some people with depression feel, angry, easily annoyed, bitter, or alienated. Any or all of these negative emotions can be part of a depressed mood if they go on for weeks or more.
Negative thinking. People with depression get stuck in negative thinking. This can make people focus on problems and faults. It can make things seem bleaker than they really are. Negative thinking can make a person believe things will never get better, that problems are too big to solve, that nothing can fix the situation, or that nothing matters. Negative thinking can be self-critical, too. People may believe they are worthless and unlovable — even though that's not true. That can lead people with depression to think about harming themselves or about ending their own life. Negative thinking can block our ability to see solutions or realize that a problem is actually temporary.
Low energy and motivation. People with depression may feel tired, drained, or exhausted. They might move more slowly or take longer to do things. It can feel as if everything requires more effort. People who feel this way might have trouble motivating themselves to do or care about anything.
Poor concentration. Depression can make it hard to concentrate and focus. It might be hard to do schoolwork, pay attention in class, remember lessons, or stay focused on what others say.
Physical problems. Some people with depression have an upset stomach or loss of appetite. Some might gain or lose weight. People might notice headaches and sleeping problems when they're depressed.
Social withdrawing. People with depression may pull away from friends and family or from activities they once enjoyed. This usually makes them feel more lonely and isolated — and can make negative thinking worse.
Millions of people around the world suffer from depression. You are not alone.
You might be having a bad day, week, month or year but remember its NOT a bad life. Depression is a temporary visitor. With proper strategies you will be able to get through the temporary feelings of depression.
Think of having the flu. The flu is horrible. It makes you feel yucky, unmotivated, no energy, your unable to do the things you normally can do. You might take a day or two off school to rest and get better. You know everyone experiences the flu and you know that you will get better, it will just take some time. This is the same for depression! Recognize that you are experiencing sadness and allow yourself to go through it. You would not shame yourself for having the flu, so do not shame yourself for having depression.
Also when you have the flu, you find things to help you feel better while your experiencing symptoms. You get soft Kleenex for your nose, you have a hot bath, drink lots of fluids, take vitamins, you sleep when you can, you might take cough syrup, cough drops or Benylin or Tylenol. Treat depression the same. Find things that make your feel better. Comfy clothes, soft blankets, hot baths, nice smelling aromas, cuddle a pet, go for a walk, watch a funny movie, listen to music.
Sometimes with the flu, the symptoms do not go away or you become too sick and need to go to the doctor. The doctor will take your temperature and might prescribe some medication to help make you feel better. Depression is the same. If your symptoms become too hard to handle its important to know that there are professionals trained to help you feel better. Sometimes this might be going to a doctor and getting medication, or sometimes going to a counselor to help figure things out. - AP
When depressed, negative thoughts take over your brain. Everyone experiences negative thoughts, however people who suffer from depression believe these thoughts and have a hard time fighting back. You need to understand that these thoughts are LIES. There is a big mean bully in your brain bringing you down. You have to treat this bully in your brain like you would treat a bully in person.
If someone was bullying you in person, you might start with ignoring the bully, then you might talk back to the bully. You might say things like "Stop it!" or "I'm not going to listen to you!" If that doesn't work you might go tell an adult to help you with the bully.
You need to do these same steps to the bully in your brain! Talk back to it. Tell it to stop telling you negative things! Tell it your not going to listen to it or believe it! You have the power to fight back to the bully in brain. - AP
Focusing on gratitude is the number one strategy for fighting depression. However sometimes when you are feeling so low its hard to think of anything that you feel grateful for, however no matter what there is always something to be grateful for. Focus on the little things. Whenever a negative thought slips into your mind, try thinking of something your grateful for to overpower that negative thought.
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