Meeting and getting engaged
Jenny and Tony met at in the University of Natal Mountain Club in 1965. The specific moment of 'meeting' was when Jenny fell off Shepard's Pie (an F2 climb at Craiglee) which Tony had just led. As she swung into 100s of feet of space, Tony expected shrieks, instead of which there were peals of laughter! "Mmm,", he thought "must be a lass worth getting to know", so he invited her to join him on an upcoming Mountain Club Berg trip to Cathedral Peak.
The trip was to the Hut in the Tsketske Valley below Cleft Peak. A group of the men climbed Pyramid while Jenny and rest went up the snow streaked Tsketske Pass. Three days together camping in rough conditions, is a 'stress' test equivalent to many months of 'normal dating' - it either ends there and then, or one is even more sure one has met 'the one'. I was sure I had met "the one'. But cJenny was exceptionally beautiful, and I felt she must be way outside my league. So I proceeded cautiously and took a year before I dared take the plunge and pop the question "will you marry me". Jenny's tart response: "what took you so long"!
This was June 1966, but we told no one and were secretly engaged for 18 months. It was delicious! Why? We were both still students and felt it was only right and proper that we should be working before we announced it. In Dec 1966 when we were in downtown Durban we popped into a jewellery store and selected an engagement ring. As I had no money (I only started work in January) I asked them to keep the ring until the end of January. "No problem," said the owner (he was a bowling friend of Dennis and Lil) "you can take it now". So we got engaged on tick! Ah well, we thought, we have the ring, so let's go to the Natal Mercury and place the engagement notice, to appear on Christmas Day.
Unfortunately, and most embarrassingly, the newspaper got it wrong and published the notice two days early, before we had a chance to tell either of our parents! We were very, very unpopular and had to beg forgiveness. I don't think we were believed until I extracted a letter of apology from the Mercury.
Jenny - Norman Partington Portrait
Tony - Portrait ~1966
Jenny - that mischievous smile
On board ship setting off on Abe Bailey Tour - Dec 1995
Abe Bailey 1965: Tony, Boy Geldenhuys, Peter Maggs, Peter Harvey, Paul Ferreira, Pieter vd Walt, JC vd Walt, JC Botha
Gus Garforth, Colin Bundy, John Gurney, Phillip Reineke
I definitely had the most beautiful send-off companion!
On the way up to TsekeTseke Valley Oct 1965
We (Martyn Wolstenholme, Pat Raw, Chris Handly, Tony & ?) climbed Pyramid from the Tsketske Hut. Mainly D with one E pitch. Oct 1965.
In April 1966 Martyn, Pat and I climbed Column. 4 pitches of hard F2. Martyn led all 4 pitches. Two of the pitches are mainly on grass! Abseiling on grass pitons was particularly hair raising!
Escarpment trip from Champagne Castle, up Grey's Pass to Organs Pipe Pass and down to the Tsketseke Hut. Easter 1996. Martyn Wolstenholme, Sue Gill (became Sue Wolstenholme!), Pat Raw, Brenda ?, Bernie & ? Shuttleworth, Jenny and Tony
Lunch at an idyllic pool
Looking down on the Sphinx from Indedema cave - another high, colds cave
"The Leader Surveys". Martyn looking onto Column from Organ's Pip Pass.
Jenny in Mweni Valley about to start ascent of Mweni Pass. July 1996
Marble Baths in Mweni Valley
Marble Baths in Mweni Valley. pat Raw and 'Goonie' ?
Mweni Pass
Top of Mweni Pass looking on to the Mweni Pins
Jenny on Escarpment at top of Mweni Pass, July 1966 This photo was used in 1999 as part of the Maloti Drakensberg Project. We landed nearby by helicopter and by lining up the Mweni Pins, we could identify the spot to with 10m and look at the vegetation changes. The team was impressed that I had walked there 34 years earlier!
The first look at Mponjwane is impressive. This is about the top half as there is a deep gap between the peak and the escarpment.
Mponjwane Cave. A fantastic view (lift one's head and look 100km over KwaZulu Natal), but very, very cold! -20 to -22 deg C. There was a small recess at the end of the cave, just big enough for 2, so Jenny and I crawled into that and were warmer than most.
Mponjwane. An impressive freestanding peak. The F2 route (10 pitches) goes up the crack right of center.
See story below on three Mponjwane ascents.
Getting water on the escarpment was a challenge - it was all frozen, even the waterfalls. However, that did not deter Jenny from having a 'bath' every day. She just cracked the ice and had a wash!
Some more relaxed trips to the Drakensberg. There were many,. We used to drop Doug and Sue with grandparents in Kloof and head up to the 'Berg for 3-4 days. Bliss!
Injasuti
Injasuti
Ndedema
Ndedema
Ndedema
Boundary Pool in Polela valley
Many trips up Sani Pass were made to service the weather station that I installed there. Some rather hectic... and all either cold, very cold or bliksem cold (<-24 deg C). The weather station was in the Black Mountains near the top of the Kotisphola Pass. In Sotho, Kotisphola translates literally as 'very cold place', or more colloquially as 'f.....g cold place'!
A memorable and very difficult trip up Sani Pass. The pass had been blocked by heavy snow and we were the first vehicle up. Took 8 hours with chains on all 4 wheels + digging our way through snowbanks in some places. This is with Geoff Hainebach.
See the "Jeep Story".
Geoff taking a break. "Skiing" there was very hard work as there was no lift. Half an hour trudging up, for a 5 minute run down! Repeat...
Dave McQuoid Mason with his Academic Snowman
Early morning looking over the Sani Flats to the Black Mountains 1966.
Tony with his "snow woman'!
The story about the Jeep
We needed a Jeep to establish and service the weather station that we built in the Black Mountains at the top of the Sani Pass. Three of us were in the project together: Dave Jaquet, Otto Hirzel and myself. Dave, who was a mining engineer with Anglo, got the Jeep as a mine surplus vehicle in 1970 for R2 000.
The Jeep went up and down the Sani Pass many times. It was an excellent work horse although not the easiest vehicle to drive. It had only a three speed gearbox, with no synchromesh on first gear, no power steering and no power brakes, so it was a real monster to drive.
We had chains to use on all four wheels to use when it was wet and snowy, which was often because we particularly needed to go up in winter. Fastening chains is difficult at the best of times. Even worse was when they snap off, which was all too often. First one had to scramble around in slush and mud to find them, then lie down in the muck and fasten them back up with frozen hands - with ice and mud dripping in one’s face. And we did that for fun?
Besides commuting up Sani Pass, the jeep was also our work horse at the farm for 20 years from 1979 to 2000. It carried all the building materials to build both houses. This heavy work put a strain on it and it was slowly ‘fading’. It needed repair, but parts were difficult to obtain for a 30 year old vehicle.
The very last time I used the Jeep, the brakes failed as I arrived at the Lesotho Border Post at the top of Sani. The handbrake had failed some time before, so I ended up running into the wall of the Border Post! After finishing up my work, I set off down the pass - with no brakes. I did this very slowly, using just the gears. But about a kilometer from the lower Border Post there was a loud grinding noise indicating something wrong with the gearbox or differential. Faced with the prospect of no brakes and no gears, I just drove into the ditch, jamming the Jeep against the bank. I walked down to the SA Border post and called a tow truck. I was not going to drive it any further!
We subsequently sold it for spares in 2000 for R5 000!