Welcome to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Stillwater

We invite you to look around and get a feel for our church. We are a Welcoming Congregation. You will not be pressured into conversation or membership. We welcome you just as you are. Our members, friends, and guests include Christians, Jews, Buddhists, Pagans, humanists, atheists, agnostics, skeptics, seekers, singles, couples, families, heterosexuals, gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgendered people, of different races, ethnic backgrounds, national origins and socio-economic circumstances.

If you're not currently a member of our church - we'd like to take this opportunity to invite you to one of our weekly services and/or covenant groups. 

Sunday Service 

Sunday services begin at 10:30 and generally conclude before noon. Services are followed by socializing and a smorgasbord of different foods, arranged with minimal planning. If you prefer to watch the service online, we share it by Facebook Live at  https://www.facebook.com/uuchstillwater . From Facebook, you will not be able to see the Trail Markers portion of the service or interact with others, but everything else is the same.

Sunday, December 1, 2024

Rev. Donna Compton, “It's Not About A Fish and Other Reasons to Not Take Christmas Literally

Ah, Christmas! A time when we are bombarded with assertions of virgin birth, hovering stars that don’t incinerate earth, angelic pronouncements, assorted prophecies, and a dozen other logic-defying mythologies. But when we don't look deeper, we "throw the baby (Jesus?) out with the bath water" (as they say). Let's talk!

Reverend Donna Compton, M. Div. is an ordained minister in the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ). Ecumenism and Interfaith advocacy have been important themes in her ministry. She preaches for us every other first Sunday.

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Rev. Catherine Shearer, “The Christmas Story as Loving Connected Presence” Reverend Shearer is an ordained Disciples of Christ minister and a psychotherapist in Oklahoma City. She speaks in our pulpit on the second Sunday of each month. 

Sunday, December 15, 2024

Rev. Susan Ross, “What Are We Waiting For?” 

What's the deal with UUs and observing Advent and Christmas?

Reverend Ross, ordained as a United Methodist minister, is our pastoral care minister and speaks on the third and fifth Sundays of the month. She also works for the Stillwater Public Library.

Sunday, December 22, 2024

Rev Mark Christian, “The Value of Faith”

Faith is something which churches are supposed to value—and we DO. The question is what is the value of our faith and how does our faith show up in our values? 

Reverend Christian is a third generation Unitarian Universalist and speaks to us on the fourth Sundays and alternate first Sundays. He has served congregations in OKC and in Las Cruces NM, prior to moving to Stillwater. Before his career in ministry he had a career in radio broadcasting.

Sunday, December 29, 2024

Rev. Susan Ross, “What Are We Waiting For, Part  2?”

Why do we insist on making such a big deal out of starting a new year?

Reverend Ross, ordained as a United Methodist minister, is our pastoral care minister and speaks on the third and fifth Sundays of the month. She also

works for the Stillwater Public Library.

Announcements & Events

Information about upcoming special events can be found under the "What's Happening" section. See Upcoming Events. 

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Adam Soltani will speak about "Faith Over Fear: The American Muslim Experience Post 9/11". The forum will be held in the forum room at 12:30.

Adam Soltani is the executive director of the Council for American Islamic Relations. He is a father, community leader, academic and writer. Adam is also a motivational speaker and a social and civil rights activist.

Sunday, December 11, 2024

"Ladies Night Out" Wednesday night, December 11th.

The fantastic chick flick "Shirley Valentine" will start at 7:15 followed by a game of Dirty Santa. To participate, you must bring a $10.00 item that is food related. The item may be homemade or store bought—just something related to food. Come have a fun evening!

Sunday, December 21, 2024

Multicultural Celebration of the Season - 6:30PM at the church.

Upcoming Covenant Groups

Information about each of our covenant groups can be found in "Our Gatherings" section.

Pastoral Care

Struggling? Need help? Or maybe you know someone who does? No question about it--it's a difficult time right now. Our Care Committee and Rev. Susan Ross, our Pastoral Care Minister, are still available to help you with whatever difficulties you're facing. We're only a phone call away! And if you are having trouble attending the Zoom services or Zoom meetings, we can try to help you get connected. Please contact us: Rev. Susan Ross: or 405-714-0064 or Susan Bullard (co-chair with Mia Owens): or 405-742-6529.

There are times when people aren’t sure if it is appropriate to contact the Pastoral Minister, or they are concerned that they may be interrupting something. Please know that the needs and concerns of the members and friends of this congregation are important to me. That is what the Pastoral Care Minister’s work is all about! The following is a list of occasions when it might be appropriate to contact me:

1) When you don’t know her but would like to.

2) When you have problems you’d like to discuss, job, children, marriage or anything else where a sympathetic ear might be of help.

3) When you are going into the hospital, or when someone close to you is going in, or when you know of someone else in the church going in.

4) When someone close to you has died or is critically ill.

5) When you are planning on getting married.

6) When you would like to have your child or children dedicated.

7) When you would like to know more about Unitarian Universalism.

8) When you are considering joining the church.

9) When you would like to help in committee work or join a covenant group.

10) When it is the middle of the night, and you are in some sort of trouble and you don’t know who else to call.”

Some of these are a little different for me (like numbers 7 & 8), since my background and training is United Methodist rather than UU. But I know who to ask about those, or who to refer you to! And, of course, the COVID-19 pandemic has affected how I am able to respond to the other concerns. I do, however, still want to respond: we could talk on the phone, Facetime, communicate by email, or do a Zoom talk. And there are needs that will no doubt come up at this time that aren't on this list: when you are needing a break from only talking to yourself or your pets, or a break from talking to your family; when you are struggling with fears or doubts about the situation we are in, when you need help with something, when you know of needs that the Pastor's Emergency Fund might help meet.

Also, if you are interested in trying to be a part of, or at least listen to, the services we are now trying to make happen on Sunday mornings, and can't figure out how to do that, let me know and I will do my best to help. You can be a part of that service, or listen to it, by phone (audio only), by smart phone with audio and visual, by computer, and by tablet. And I think we are trying to have a recorded version of it available afterwards as well.