Here is some feedback and a few pictures from the 2019, 2018, 2017, 2016, 2013 and 2010 Reflector Retreats:
Here is some feedback and a few pictures from the 2019, 2018, 2017, 2016, 2013 and 2010 Reflector Retreats:
“The Reflector Retreat- an ode to Nisarg, to the people that were there, the people that wanted to be there, and the people that have no idea, but will someday find themselves in the depths of stillness and it profound gifts.
It’s been a little over two months since landing back upon US soil, but, it feels more like two years.
Yes, perhaps the types of events that have transpired have distorted my perspective, or perhaps the distortion is influenced by the playing of time in a reflector only environment, really only feeling the time through the setting and rising of the sun, coming back to the energy world is quick and full of activity! ( think butterfly in a stream of traffic) - I digress…
You see, it took time to find the timelessness, and it took patience to see its offerings, it took courage to find the surrender and then to sink into its surprisingly comforting embrace, it took several long heavy exhales, a 30+ hour travel “day”, a 9 hr time difference and a lovingly crafted bath from nature herself, to arrive fully - at least for me.
Where was it that I arrived you ask?
Well, I unwittingly thought my final destination was Corfu, Greece, after all that’s what my plane ticket indicated... HAHA, how silly of me...
of course this location could hardly be printed on any boarding pass, let alone pinned on a map... according to what I saw, and experienced, its not quite a geological place- it’s really a space landscaped by the attending auras; a kind of in between place- reminiscent of, let’s say Harry Potter’s platform: 9 3/4, completely invisible to the ever abundant muggles, yet when crossed by the sensitive a threshold hardly describable...
Let me back up a sec.
...After having learned about HD type I’ve always had this vision of reflectors being on the outside, scanning and probing pockets of people to find the difference by looking into this window of life, to see, and then maybe, just maybe, the reflector is seen back, upon which an invitation or initiation into the world of stimulating energy presents itself: “come right in it says” if/when correct a sampling of the little family, or a large tribe or a sprawling environment takes place.
( keep in mind a sampling that will never truly belong to the curious reflector)
A space in time is now open for the reflector to examine with a fine tooth comb; exploring with all of its highs and all of its lows... and when the time comes to an end picking themselves up, nodding in gratitude, and leaving. Never staying in one place, instead popping out despite whatever mental efforts ...
This is what the retreat offered. me - A baseline - An acknowledgement of being in between. An understanding that the theme of sampling isn’t something of a down fall, but a point of leverage to find solace with the reflector aura. A bridge from the outside and an in between from one group to another.
How delectable this space of reflector auras turned out to be, how nourishing it was to be with people, yet have absolutely no pressure asserted by them, unarming might be a good way to put it. Discovering that these people felt the exact same relief when it was apparent that I too wanted absolutely nothing from them, only to be seen as I am to see them as they were - to which, at one point, a little, but mighty, reflector indicated that hugging me, or for that matter any other reflector, “was like hugging a cloud”. Together, for a week without energetic interruption we floated in a field so uniquely Reflector I’m unsure its articulable ( hence all of these word ::eye roll::)
It’s uncanny when one is deprived of such a space to be themselves, how lost and alone it feels, how loud the mind makes you believe it is YOU.
In this in between place crazy things start to happen, like stuff getting done without doing, or even crazier a profound embodiment a different level of Self attained ... all of this just falling into place with the recognition of auric type. The speculation of who you imagined you were as a child was right all along ... non of this would be so obvious to me if it weren’t for me taking a leap in peeling myself away from the field of energy and intensity!
Fly safely my lunar friends and love yourself enough to find yourself in stillness and patience ”
Sara Castro
“I am a totally different person now. The retreat washed away a shitload of old stuff.” - Jan van Dreumelen
I just returned from a magical trip to Corfu and a super-magical Reflector Retreat. The first thing I feel important to mention is that all of us were allowed to be what and who we are at whatever moment. No pressure, no agenda. We were free to attend the group meetings, or we could not go. As far as I remember, we were all there always. And that is because it was pure magic to be together.
The next important thing is that in this atmosphere we were going so deep into what the Reflector experience is because there were no holds barred. It didn't matter where an exchange between us started. We followed it and usually arrived in a flow that seemed to never stop. It carried us for the entire retreat and showed us where our true North, our deep home-base is. Mundane exchanges between us had no tension, were sometimes utterly silly, but always anchored in a deep sense of being alone together. You don't get that anywhere else - only in a group of Reflectors.
And it is important to mention that Nisarg is holding this space for a number of years now. It is through her courage to be herself unabashedly that there even is this opportunity of a Reflector retreat. I am very grateful for her immense love of life and the tenderness with which she shares her experience of being a Reflector, and being Nisarg. That alone made it possible for all of us attending to share our experience of being a Reflector and being ourselves.
So? I can only encourage you with all my heart to see if you have the opportunity to be there next time. It's worth all the money and all the pain of traveling at odd hours on obscure flights. It is worth being off-grid for 8 days, not checking your emails or making calls, not leaving the premises just so the energy can be purified. It really is.
It was very hard to see the first person off just when the retreat had ended. We missed him dearly and felt a loss. After such an experience, it's really good to give yourself time to re-enter the world as such. Staying on for a couple of more days really helps to secure your anchor as you go out again to the beach or into town to have coffee or - as most of us women did - buy clothes! Haha!
There is so much more I could say about this, but there is a universe more I could share in silence. Knowledge is one thing, knowing another. You decide.
Niravi
If you're a Reflector, you have to had the experience of a Retreat like this at least once, to fully understand what all the reviews are trying to say. Words are so limited versus the experience of being there, in beautiful Corfu, with Reflectors only. It's like you're in a complete different world... The nothingness, the experience of TRUE relaxation, the feeling of being grounded, and excepted, finally!! Those are a few things I haven't found anywhere but there.
Personally, I also clearly noticed the absence of fear and insecurity. Something I wasn't common with yet. Wow...So strange... And such a relief at the same time. I could really relax every inch of my body in a way I will never manage in daily life. Observe and be aware of what happens in the absence of the other types.
Nisarg will take you deeper and deeper into this magical feeling of nothingness with her great teachings and just creating the space for it. I don't know, it just happens... Lots and lots of laughter and humour also. During the teachings and outside the classroom. We're such a funny type! 😄
And last but not least you will be taking care of in an excellent way. Nice apartments, no other energies from staff and really good, traditional Greek, really yummy food. Be aware of your weight!
Esther Terpstra
"The best experience since I've known about Human Design was the Reflector Retreat with Nisarg. It was a very well organized exciting process under the guidance of our wise teacher in a beautiful place graced with excellent weather and delicious Greek cuisine. The most important thing for me was the magic of being in auras of Reflectors only for the first time in my life. It was very surprising and interesting to hear about the life experiences of other reflectors from different parts of the world. It gave me a more deep understanding of our nature, life and the Reflector’s place in it. We were laughing a lot, sharing our experiences with HD and much more… I'm waiting for the next opportunity to take part in the new Reflector Retreat with Nisarg."
Sju - Сью Эл
„The retreat was a real gift to my Self. Being in this lovely and quiet place with fellow Reflectors nourished my heart and soul. Being able to breathe fully, being able to let go of all the energies we carry with us, getting a glimpse of what I am, laughing, dancing, playing, being quiet and letting our auras do the talking... aahhhhh This feeling of deep caress of my Spirit, this experience, rests gently in my memory, unable to hold on to the feeling itself... Gratefully waiting for another opporunity to share Love again. Thank you Nisarg for hosting and organising such an extraordinary event with great passion”
Marije Dolman
Die 10 tage in nikos haben mich nachhaltig verändert... ich habe mich noch nie in meinem leben so tief in mir selbst, in meinem körper entspannt gefühlt und auch mein mind war so ruhig wie noch nie... es war einfach wunder,-wunder, wundervoll… Ich kam ja mit ziemlichen gesundheitlichen problemen nach corfu, weshalb ich auch erst dachte, dass ich gar nicht kommen könne---in den 10 tagen und ganz besonders in der woche ohne andere energien, habe ich all meine körperlichen probleme regelrecht vergessen, mein körper hat sich so leicht und entspannt angefühlt...
Antje Linke
"It took me what felt like an age to decide to join the Reflector Retreat with Nisarg, but what a truly wonderful experience it was and how grateful I am that I participated. When I reflect on what "participated" means for me, well, not what I usually think of ... rather, just being there, being open, sharing what felt appropriate and enjoying being in a caring, nourishing place with some very remarkable people.
I had hoped that the retreat would create a space for something to come in. I (or perhaps, it) did although it was not what I expected. It turned out that the surprise was in giving myself permission for the space to exist and I realise how "normally" my space is full of other people's stuff, expectations, demands, their ideas of who or what I should be etc. This space was full of me, a glimpse of the "real" me, and a sense of the depth of my own resourcefulness, resilience and power - it's quite a rush!
Nisarg really cares. This was obvious from the wonderful choice of venue, the fabulous food and the effort she put into making this retreat such a powerful experience. Also, in the way Nisarg generously shares from her own personal experience and of her own knowledge.
I cannot recommend this retreat enough! Your gift is in knowing who you really are and, for me, this retreat was an invaluable step on that journey."
Des Bravington
"L’esperienza del Retreat ha avuto valore su piani diversi, per me; ho potuto sperimentare per la prima volta quanto è fondamentale lo spazio e il tempo per un Riflettore, e questo è stato davvero molto importante, anche se il senso dell’esperienza è arrivato dopo molti cicli della Luna. A distanza di 2 anni, comincio adesso a comprendere davvero il senso di quello che tu, Maestra, chiami il ‘No-Sè-. Grazie Sorriso. L’altro aspetto profondamente interessante è stato osservare altri Riflettori, e rispecchiarmi nelle somiglianze, e nelle diversità. Sto ancora lavorando su quanto ci accomuna a un livello incredibilmente profondo, e quanto invece siamo unici nella nostra singola e specifica capacità di riflettere il mondo... Esperienza straordinaria. Comprendo quanto sono profondamente archetipica nella mia natura di 1/3, e quanto avere la possibilità di un laboratorio sperimentale come un retreat di Riflettori sia un’opportunità irripetibile e splendida... Spero di riuscire ancora una volta ad ottenere il supporto organizzativo ed economico che mi è necessario per essere presente. Ricordo con gioia la profonda sensazione di benessere quando, in silenzio e con gli occhi chiusi, iniziavamo i nostri incontri... Ricordo la confusione e l’ansia al pensiero della vita ‘vera’, fuori da quel posto e da quel gruppo... Un periodo e una situazione davvero nutrienti, nel mio processo di ‘tornare a casa’... Grazie ancora" -
Grazia Maria
"Spending time just with reflectors was a truly magical and peaceful experience - totally unforgettable, fun and supportive. To spend time with our own type is so rare, I would highly recommend it as a once in a lifetime experience"
Rachel Walmsley
"The 2010 reflector retreat was a beautiful blessing in my life. For the first time in my life I had the sweet experience of being in such exquisite energy together with other people….. feeling so light and ‘home’ in an effortless way – needing to do nothing to achieve it other than be with my own type. It was well worth the trip all the way from New Zealand to be part of this. Gratitude and Love"
Christine Spicer
"Dear travelers! I had the honor to be part of a very special event which took place in a beautiful Tuscany location. The first reflector gathering! Not knowing a lot about the Human Design System I felt that this journey was something I was supposed to take. So live gave me the possibility to do it. And it was more than worth it! I have never experienced such a calmness among so many people. It was as if I was alone still surrounded by 14 other souls. I grew up in a spiritual community and I am used to these kind of settings. But I never, never felt this delicate nothingness and freedom taking place in a group in this incredible speed. The first evening we met Nisarg wanted to speak to us and asked for our attention. All reflectors stopped talking and looked to her and immediately it felt like a wind of calmness rushing through leaving us with silence, love and freedom. It was as if we are empty feeling so full together. The following days were wonderful! We could just take our time do everything in our “speed” and just enjoy this time together with laughter, tears, joy, excitement and love. I felt so welcome and understood. I felt the compassion and the understanding we all shared for each other. And day after day the people seemed to lose their body and I started to see their essence which was a magical experience. Now, 2 years after, this experiences still carry me and I am thankful for everything I was allowed to experience. I am very blessed to have met this special people which became my giant mushroom reflector family! Individual but still connected underneath the surface."
Kezia Kraus
"What I liked most was the absence of pressure..." - Janny Meerstadt
"a wonderfull week in paradiese, with shining stars from all over the world. breathing out and breathing out and breathing out...........!!!" - Gabriele Unterhofer
"I would so much love to take part in another reflector retreat. What stayed from the last one was the experience of an indescribably deep and self understood way of being - with myself and with others. It felt so easy to float and be with whatever was present -- and withdraw whenever it felt right without justification needed. So relaxing, so close to, and in harmony with what I perceived myself to be in a given moment. Love" - Christine Martin
The only way to come close to beginning to describe the beauty of my experience during our 7 day Reflector Retreat, was to write this poem. Deep gratitude to Nisarg B. Nikiel for holding this reflector space.
And On The Seventh Day
Today the sky has something to say to the earth.
For 7 days the sky has opened above us
Stars have risen inside us
Portals of light entered our beings
and the sky has allowed this piercing.
Today the sky has something to say,
it is falling to meet us,
rain soaks, cleans, preparing a washed world
for our first steps
For 7 days we've sat soaking in silence
we sit, we wait, space opens
we fall through
The sky looks on at this bliss
this empty unbecoming
Today the sky has something to say
For 7 days sky has mediated between heaven and earth
watching, waiting, knowing, holding
For 7 days we've opened
unpeeled and unfolded
travelled to outer realms
crystal cosmic pathways beyond The sky has looked on
Today the sky has something to say
The realm between heaven and earth
must be washed, soaked, deep-cleaned
just as we have been
Darkness falls
No moon
New Moon
More reflected light on planet earth washed clean
Heaven and earth dance in delight
Christine Spicer Tues 15 May 2018 Arillas, Corfu Greece