My love,
Radical Romance feels paradoxical yet completely logical. I Iove you for who you are, and yet we are in this to not just help each other but to actually recraft each others identities. This is not a small thing to say or offer - and we are not small.
This is what i am offering you and what i hope you will grant me as well. I will help you become who it is that you want to be. This means starting by understanding you, both what works and what your proud of and where your clay feet are, the dirty broken bits that you would rather not share. I need to see this, i need to understand all of you.
From here we design plans, fumble chaotically, stare deep into each others eyes, attempt sophisticated analysis and accept good guess as to what will help you get to where your trying to go. I commit to being honest with you when i see you stuck (but being honest is not excuse for not being sensative and respectful). And i am hear to hold you to your word. Not like a teacher waiting for you to fail, but as a committed ally, invested in your success and sharing your integrity. You will make mistakes, i will strive to be graceful and i ask the same from you about mine. To walk that fine line between tough love and cutting enough slack to thrive.
We are no like other lovers, we are trying something different, something deeper. I trust you with the keys to my inner workings as i ask to be entrusted with yours. We will make each other a new and celebrate what we have co-created.
Awaiting your reply
Senior Big Nose