The kindergarten has just started school for a period of time. With the adaptation and relief of some newly-entered parents and children, the parents of some children who have entered the middle class have become anxious again. The reason is that the kindergarten asks the children to eat with chopsticks from the beginning of the middle class. My child doesn't even have a spoon.
Worried that children can't keep up with the kindergarten rhythm, some parents even start to worry that their children can't master the skills they should master in the corresponding time period, which will have an impact on future life learning.
Parent: My child will not use chopsticks. Is there a problem with intelligence?
Ms. Cai, who lives in the urban area, has some troubles recently. The son who has already entered the middle class will not use chopsticks. When she teaches him to use it at home, the children are very resistant and very uncooperative. "The children in their class have already used it in small classes, and now the kindergarten has asked for chopsticks to be used. Look at the video from the teacher. He will poke the chopsticks in the rice bowl and poke it to eat everywhere. I have to wonder if there is a problem with mental development," Ms. Cai said.
There are more troubles for parents than Ms. Cai, and Ms. Song, who lives in Xinbei District, has such troubles. The son who has been in a big class has not yet learned to wear clothes. Every morning, the grandmother of the child is wearing it for him. Ms. Song told reporters that because the husband and wife are busy with work, the task of caring for the child is handed over to the child's grandmother. "I have recently communicated with my colleagues and friends around me. I feel more and more wrong. Children of this age will basically wear their own clothes, but my son will not be." Ms. Song said.
Through interviewing a number of parents, the reporter found that there are not many parents with such confusion. Some children will not tie their shoes in the first grade, and some will not use chopsticks, and some even a decent pattern can not be drawn... Parents have trouble and doubts.
Kindergarten: Most begin to teach children to eat with chopsticks, not mandatory
At present, most kindergartens in our city begin to teach children to use chopsticks to eat during the middle class. However, it is not mandatory. Some kindergartens have suggestions for parents. A few kindergartens will not learn or refuse to use chopsticks. Issue the spoon.
The head of the slaughterhouse of Zhaofeng Kindergarten said, "We also have some children in kindergartens who don't use chopsticks when they go to the big class. Let's let him eat with a spoon first." The director said that this is no stranger to children, just like kindergarten. There are many children who don’t wear laces until they graduate. "For the sake of convenience, parents now buy the children's tears and a sticky one. The children wearing the laces are few. The same parents have too much love, always feeding the children, children don't Say to use chopsticks, and some even use spoons are not skilled."
Teacher Ding of Huashan Kindergarten said that kindergartens must use chopsticks to eat during the middle school semester. They will communicate with parents in middle school last semester, but not all parents are cooperating. There are more new families in kindergartens. The child is taken care of by my grandparents. It is convenient and quick for children to eat. Basically, they use spoons. Some even go to kindergarten and will not be proficient in using chopsticks. Therefore, in the usual course, they will increase the corresponding game training in the use of chopsticks, such as the use of chopsticks to clip beans, clip beads, etc. Through such interesting training, the improvement is more obvious.
Expert: Parents should do self-regulation, learn to let go and wait
Children can't master the skills that should be mastered in a certain age group. Will it affect future life? Lu Yuqing of Mingzhuxiang Education Group said, “After finishing the middle class, most children will master how to use chopsticks. Even if there are individual children, it does not mean that he has mental problems. After all, some children are more serious. Everything will be carefully studied, but some children are very naughty, he will be disobedient, and he will not use Chopsticks to have a close relationship with Cong."
Director Lu believes that children will naturally learn when they reach a certain age, but if they want to let the children master it earlier, parents can't do it all. Every child has different characteristics and is good at doing things differently. Maybe he hasn't learned to use chopsticks for a while, but maybe the story is better than others. Maybe he hasn't learned to wear clothes yet, but he has already added or subtracted within 10 times. Cooked in the heart. After all, the coming will come, parents should do a good job of self-regulation, learn to let go and wait.
Director Lu also mentioned that some children are quick to master, and may also be in a small class. "A lot of skills, such as eating with a spoon, taking a nap, sleeping with other children, etc., will be practiced in the small class. So many children have a little gap with other children when they go to kindergarten, not necessarily intellectual development. Many factors will affect it."