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Objective: Understand how gratitude impacts the brain, practice daily techniques that improve mood, memory, and emotional well-being, and leave with actionable strategies.
“Share one small thing you’re grateful for today.”
Cultivating a grateful mindset can enhance our well-being, strengthen our relationships, and bring more joy and positivity into our lives.
Rooted in the Latin "gratia" (grace, gratefulness).
Involves recognizing and appreciating positive aspects of life, from others, nature, or experiences.
Practiced through words, notes, or personal reflection.
Shifts focus from what we lack to what we have.
Gratitude rituals are intentional, regular practices designed to help you recognize and appreciate the positive aspects of your life. These rituals can be simple or elaborate, but their purpose is to shift attention away from stress or negativity and toward what is meaningful, joyful, or supportive.
Here are some common examples of gratitude rituals:
Gratitude Journaling – Writing down 3–5 things you're grateful for each day. This helps train the brain to notice positives.
Gratitude Walks – Taking a walk while mindfully appreciating your surroundings, your body, or specific people or experiences.
Group Sharing – In families, classrooms, or meetings, going around and sharing one thing everyone is grateful for.
(Emmons & McCullough, 2003)
Robert Emmons and Michael McCullough define gratitude as a two-step process: first, recognizing that one has received a positive outcome, and second, acknowledging that the source of this positivity lies outside oneself. This means gratitude isn't just about feeling good, it's about understanding that something or someone contributed to your well-being.
Psychologists also break gratitude down into three forms:
As an affective trait, it's part of your personality — a natural tendency to notice and appreciate the good in life.
As a mood, gratitude can rise and fall throughout the day, influenced by your experiences.
As an emotion, it's a temporary feeling you get in response to something specific — like someone doing you a favor or giving you a thoughtful gift.
This layered understanding of gratitude helps explain why it can be practiced and developed over time, even if it doesn’t come naturally at first.
Is happiness what makes us grateful—or is it the other way around? 🤔 Discover the surprising science behind grateful living and how practicing gratitude can lead to deeper joy, even in everyday moments.
Class Exercise: Exploring Gratitude
Prompt:
What are some ways you personally express gratitude? Do you have any gratitude rituals—big or small—that you practice regularly?
Describe what it looks like in your life. For example, do you write in a journal, say thank you out loud, reflect silently, or share appreciation with others?
Feel free to give a specific example or describe a moment when expressing gratitude made a difference for you.
Recognition: Notice acts of kindness and positive events.
Understanding the Source: See if good things come from outside yourself (others, nature, etc.).
Emotional Response: Feelings of joy or thankfulness.
Reflection and Attribution: Think about why you received kindness or positivity.
Expression of Gratitude: Express thanks verbally, in writing, or through actions.
Try this with your partner or someone you truly care about. 💛 In this video, therapist Hedy Schleifer introduces her Four-Minute Gratitude Ritual—a powerful practice where each person takes turns expressing heartfelt appreciation.
Class Exercise: The Four-Minute Gratitude Ritual
Gratitude is a powerful tool for boosting well-being and strengthening our relationships. In this exercise, you’ll take just four minutes to reflect and express appreciation in a mindful and intentional way.
Find a Quiet Space
Settle into a calm, comfortable spot—whether in the classroom, at home, or outside. Allow yourself to be fully present.
Set an Intention
Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and set the intention to focus on the good in your life and open yourself to gratitude.
Reflect on Gratitude
Silently or on paper, reflect on the following:
What are you grateful for in your life right now?
What recent experience or small moment brought you joy or peace?
Is there something you often take for granted that you’d like to appreciate more today?
Express Your Gratitude
Choose one way to express what you’re feeling:
Write a few lines in your journal or on a notecard
Share a thank-you with a classmate, friend, or family member
Spend a quiet moment appreciating your surroundings
Or simply sit in silent reflection, feeling the gratitude in your body
Animals engage in behaviors known as reciprocal altruism. Acts of helping another member of their species even when it comes at a personal cost. These behaviors are believed to occur because the animal, at an instinctual level, recognizes that the favor might be returned in the future. Many researchers see this pattern as an evolutionary foundation for gratitude, suggesting that gratitude may have developed as a mechanism to reinforce these social bonds and promote cooperation among individuals.
For example:
Cleaner fish, like the cleaner wrasse, pick parasites off larger fish. These larger fish return repeatedly to the same cleaners, forming a mutualistic bond.
Elephants have been seen helping injured or stuck herd members and appear to remember specific individuals who helped them in the past.
These social behaviors suggest that the roots of gratitude may lie deep in our evolutionary past, helping animals & humans included, turn strangers into allies and build cooperative societies.
Kindness in Nature: This video explores how behaviors like kin selection and reciprocal altruism evolve through natural selection. Revealing how helping others, whether family or frequent companions, can shape a system of shared moral values.
During the recent San Diego earthquake, the elephants at the San Diego Zoo showed incredible instinct and care—gathering to protect the smallest member of their herd. 🐘💛 A powerful reminder that animals, like humans, look out for each other in times of uncertainty.
(Chowdhury, 2020; Emmons, 2003; Seligman, 2005; Wood, 2010)
Mental Health: Reduces depression, anxiety, and stress. Improves life satisfaction.
Physical Health: Fewer aches/pains, healthier behaviors, more self-care.
Better Sleep: Faster, longer, and more refreshing sleep.
Stronger Relationships: Builds connection and reduces resentment.
More Empathy/Less Aggression: Increases kindness and compassion.
Higher Self-Esteem: Reduces envy; boosts self-worth.
Greater Resilience: Helps cope with stress and bounce back from adversity.
(Fox et al., 2015) (Kini et al., 2016) (Mills et al., 2015) (Zak et al., 2004) (Emmons & Stern, 2013)
Reward System Activation: Gratitude lights up brain regions like the VTA and nucleus accumbens (pleasure/reward).
Neural Sensitivity: Regular gratitude increases sensitivity in the medial prefrontal cortex.
Emotional Regulation: Boosts activity in the ACC and mPFC, helping manage emotions and empathy.
Reduced Stress: Increases oxytocin, enhancing trust and lowering anxiety.
Resilience: Reframes negativity, strengthens mental health.
How Gratitude Changes the Brain and Body
(Brown & Wong, 2017)
Research by psychologists Joshua Brown and Joel Wong at Indiana University has shown that gratitude isn't just a feel-good emotion—it leads to real, lasting changes in both mental health and brain function. Their work identified four key discoveries:
Gratitude frees us from toxic emotions:
Writing about what we’re thankful for helps reduce negative feelings like anger, envy, or regret—even if the gratitude is never shared with others.
Gratitude helps even if it's kept private:
Simply writing gratitude letters improved mental health outcomes for participants, regardless of whether the letters were ever sent.
Gratitude’s effects take time:
The mental health benefits of gratitude didn’t appear right away, but built up over weeks—showing the importance of consistency and patience.
Gratitude creates lasting brain changes:
Brain scans showed that practicing gratitude increased activity in the medial prefrontal cortex, a region linked to decision-making and emotional regulation, even months after the practice ended.
This research helps confirm that gratitude is more than a momentary feeling—it’s a powerful tool for long-term emotional resilience and brain he
(Miller, 2016; Kane, 2018)
Gratitude Journal: Daily list of things you're grateful for.
Inventory of Good Deeds: Note your own positive contributions.
Find Gratitude in Challenges: Recognize what difficulties reveal about your strengths/support.
Appreciate Everything: Big or small, express thanks.
Volunteer: Giving back builds gratitude.
Express Gratitude: Write notes, make calls.
Boost Your Happiness: Happy people find gratitude easier.
Recap: Gratitude improves mental, physical, and social well-being.
Activities help personalize gratitude practices.
Starting a journal sets you on the path to embracing gratitude.
Life Story Writing Activity
Prompt:
Think of a time in your life when you felt extremely grateful for someone—during either a difficult time or a very joyful moment.
Describe the situation in detail:
What was happening?
Who was the person you were grateful for, and what did they do?
How did you feel in that moment?
What did gratitude feel like in your body or mind?
How has that memory stayed with you?
Use these sentence starters to help you:
I’ll never forget the time when...
It was a [happy/sad/challenging] time in my life because...
One person who stood out to me was...
They helped me by...
I felt so grateful because...
To this day, I still remember how that made me feel...
Brown, J. W., & Wong, J. (2017). How gratitude changes you and your brain. Greater Good Science Center, University of California, Berkeley. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_gratitude_changes_you_and_your_brain
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Chowdhury, M. R. (2020, January 9). Anxiety and grief. PositivePsychology.com. https://positivepsychology.com/neuroscience-of-gratitude
de Waal, F. (2009). The age of empathy: Nature’s lessons for a kinder society. Crown Publishing.
Emmons, R. A. (2003). Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 84(2), 377–389. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.84.2.377
Emmons, R. A. (2013). Gratitude as a psychotherapeutic intervention. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 69(8), 846–855. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23775470/
Fox, G. R., Kaplan, J., Damasio, H., & Damasio, A. (2015). Neural correlates of gratitude. Frontiers in Psychology, 6, 1491. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2015.01491
Kini, P., Wong, J., McInnis, S., Gabana, N., & Brown, J. W. (2016). The effects of gratitude expression on neural activity. Frontiers in Psychology, 7, 1223. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26746580/
Miller, J. (2016, July 8). 8 ways to have more gratitude every day. Forbes. https://www.forbes.com/sites/womensmedia/2016/07/08/8-ways-to-have-more-gratitude-every-day
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