This month, our 4th and 5th graders learned about self-care and self-advocacy, two important skills that help students stay calm, healthy, confident, and ready to learn. Students explored what it means to take care of their minds and bodies and how to speak up for what they need in difficult or stressful situations.
We started with a movement activity where students showed agreement or disagreement with statements about asking for help, managing stress, making healthy choices, and standing up for themselves. This helped them reflect on their own habits and needs.
What Is Self-Care?
Students learned that self-care means taking care of their physical, emotional, and mental well-being. We discussed how self-care helps us:
Feel less stressed
Make better choices
Stay focused and energized
Manage emotions
Build healthy relationships
Students also shared examples of self-care, such as getting enough sleep, limiting screen time, taking breaks, connecting with friends or family, and doing activities that bring joy.
What Is Self-Advocacy?
Self-advocacy means asking for what you need and standing up for yourself respectfully.
We practiced using phrases like:
“When ___ happens, I need ___.”
“Will you please help me?”
“No, I’m not comfortable with that.”
Students role-played real-life school situations, such as:
Someone making distracting noise
Needing instructions repeated
Wanting a moment alone when upset
A substitute mispronouncing their name
Feeling uncomfortable with a friend's behavior
Asking for a new seat to stay focused
These role-plays helped students practice communicating clearly and respectfully.
Building a Self-Care Plan
Each student created a personal Self-Care Plan, identifying:
Things that help them calm down
Healthy habits they want to practice
Activities that bring them joy
Times when they may need to advocate for themselves
What Students Learned
By the end of the lesson, students understood that:
Taking care of themselves is essential for emotional health
They have the right to ask for what they need
Speaking up respectfully builds confidence and independence
Self-care and self-advocacy help them be their best at school and at home
Try this at home:
Ask your child, “What is one self-care strategy or self-advocacy phrase you want to use more often?”