Parents and caregivers hold a pivotal role in facilitating the development of self-respect and nurturing the ability of children to cultivate respectful relationships with others. By fostering a broadening network of secure relationships, children not only gain confidence but also experience a sense of being respected and valued. This nurtures their capacity to acknowledge and honor the emotions of others, fostering positive interactions and social engagement.
Respectful relationships also help your child feel safe, encouraged, valued, understood and accepted.
Benefits for children:
Improved academic outcomes
More positive social behaviour
Improve sense of self-confidence
Promote healthy self-expression and awareness of themselves and others
Feel accepted, positive and free to be themselves
Tips on how to build a respectful relationship with your child:
Be a good listener
Understand their point of view
Express your needs and wants in a direct, calm and respectful way
Respond in a timely manner if they request something
Acknowledge what they do well
Let your children know you appreciate them
Emphasise their strengths, not weaknesses
Ensure your humour is sensitive to others’ feelings and avoid embarrassing them
Speak directly with others, don’t talk behind their back
Allow them space if they need it
Ms Zanthe Ng,
Senior School Counsellor
(Whole School)
Mr Daniel Tan,
Counsellor
(Whole School)
Ms Lori Ercan,
Counsellor
(Whole School)