Cultural Shock: Lifestyle


American Transportation

Once arriving in America, Gisele immediately noticed the differences in between her homeland and Massachusetts. Moving from a European capital, with all its cultural offerings, to a suburb of a small provincial city in Western Mass was a shock in many ways. “I found the absence of public transportation particularly difficult. I had been taking public transportation my whole life; since fourth grade I went to school by myself, and was responsible to arrive on time regardless of the circumstances or bad weather. I believe that this freedom of movement fosters an early self-reliance and sense of responsibility. In Western Mass, I could only go as far as my feet would take me. I had learned to drive the family car when I was 18 years old (the earliest one can drive in Belgium) but had very little experience, because it was far more practical to take public transportation. My husband and I did not even own a car, we could go anywhere easily without having to worry about parking or traffic. Suddenly obtaining a Mass. driver’s license as quickly as possible became an absolute necessity.”

American Food


Upon arrival in America, Gisele had a very tough time finding food that she could normally find in Belgium. Not only was it tough on her, but also tough on her children who were being taught American standards.

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American Homes

Once Gisele arrived to America, her first idea was to purchase a condo for five years because she wasn't planning on living there for the rest of her life. Unfortunately, Gisele soon would realize most condos in Springfield were in dangerous neighborhoods. This forced Gisele and Ruly to purchase a home in the suburbs outside of Springfield. "The houses were very different. First of all, they were made of wood. I have never seen a house made of wood before. Even the barns where I come from are made out of brick. Wood to me implies 'temporary shacks' so I found the house very ugly and very bizarre. They were made of wood, all different colors, and with tiny little windows. Where I come from, the windows are very large. The outsides and insides of American homes were very different" (Gisele).