In Thought, Word and Deed

This is a touchy subject because of the wide varieties of wrong there is to suffer, but I want to base it all on one premise. If you have been living your life for the Lord, or seem to witness or just give people the general impression you’re a Christian, than you can apply this theory.

In Jesus life he had been suffering wrong and it isn't all documented, but I can imagine from the time he stayed behind when Joseph and Mary had to go a day’s journey back to find him in the synagogue actually teaching at the age of twelve, he had to have suffered injustices.

The focus here is his constant dodging of situations where people wanted to stone him, push him off a cliff, jail him and in general just kill him.

We in our lives live under the title 'Christian'. We are known around the neighborhood, at work, in the supermarket and so on. I have been amazed how many times I have been told, 'do you remember when you did this several years ago, when we worked for the State and you claimed you were a Christian?'

You see people watch us Christians even when we aren't aware of it. People have even said to me, "you are a Christian aren't you?" I said yes how did you know? They said I could tell from the way you behaved.

So in retrospect, let me liken it to several other paid attention to categories. In my recollection, whenever I was introduced to a Jewish person, I never forgot that they were Jewish. If I was told this woman is a widow that would stick in my mind. If someone told me so and so was an atheist or Buddhist, or even a professor, it was permanently ingrained in my mind.

Now how much more do we remember things, and then will monitor the behavior to see if they live up to their title. How many times have you been introduced to a pastor, and after, watched them with some kind of expectation as to the standard of character they should display, or the way they should act?

Now to get on with this commentary. As I have surfed MySpace and landed on a multitude of profiles, I have noticed that much of the "who am I" paragraphs contained blame against a spouse, for where I am at now. People hang a shingle out there with the accusation of "victim." In so many posts in the group Over 40 & Fine, I have read so much blame against ex-s that it is just unbelievable. People are still hanging on to the sufferings done by other people.

Then to compare with that, I read other "who am I's" that talk about drama, saying 'I don't need anymore drama, because of this!' Guess what people, life is drama, life is trials, hassles, troubles, and the list goes on. Marriage is hassles, troubles, drama; you can't get away from it. Whether at work, driving down the road having some one flip you the bird because you didn't see them and accidentally cut in front of them. Or maybe you’re the one that doesn't know how to control your middle finger or the words that come out of your mouth.

Paul laid it all out for us in 1 Corinthians 6:1 - 8 ending with.. Now therefore there is utterly a fault among you, because you go to law one with another. Why do ye not rather take wrong? Why do ye not suffer yourselves to be defrauded? 8 Nay, ye do wrong, and defraud, and that your brethren.

I like how the NIV children’s version puts it..7 The lawsuits that you have against each other show that you are already defeated. It would be better for you to let some one wrong you! It would be better for you to let some one cheat you! 8 But you yourselves do wrong and cheat! And you do this to your own brothers in Christ!

Talk about a chastisement! If we are to suffer what we feel are wrongs enough to go to court for, how much more should we suffer wrongs that are much smaller than that? Do we not know that many things are because of something we have already perpetrated, and it is just coming back to haunt us. What are the consequences of sin? If you live together with your spouse before you get married, do you think there are not consequences?

The wages of sin is death, but the penance of sin still does not elude consequences does it? In an earlier commentary I spoke about the sins handed down to the third and fourth generations of those who are disobedient to God. So now, where does this leave us, God forbid, we suffer wrong?

We need to take another look at were we came from, and how we got here. If you suffered verbal abuse by a spouse and never flailed a word back out of offense, then bravo for you! If you even gave it a thought, rendered actions that imitated harshness, or even rendered silence extending beyond the season of the argument and into a new dimension of time, meaning you decided to give them the silent treatment to extend their punishment, than you are guilty as charged.

Let me remind all of what was taught on the subject of lust, as an example to step into this next lesson. Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her in his heart.

Wait a minute, nothing got verbalized! The eyes and the heart were the only offensive parts of the body. Now read 2 Corinthians 10:3 - 5 For we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: 4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds;) 5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;

This is a deep set of scriptures and what it is telling us is that we are to even eliminate thoughts to keep us from being led astray. When I first learned of this set of scriptures years ago, my first thought was that we are plummeted within our own minds of the things we have been exposed to in the world. So we need to try to draw back our thoughts that cause offense. I remember the bad influences that I have been exposed to as I grew up, being associated with people who just couldn't keep their minds out of the gutters.

Now, those thoughts can't help but surface when the flesh says,' I'm going to show this spirit who’s the boss!' So we constantly war against our flesh. We have to pray for a cleansing of our minds, and we also need to remember to bind Satan in the name and by the blood of Jesus when ever we are led to that extreme in our thought process. Then we can start to resume control over our thoughts and take possession of our vessel again.

Jesus reminded us in Matthew 12:34 -37 speaking to the Pharisees saying, O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things" for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. 35 A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things. 36 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. 37 For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.

That right there is a promise, and you remember that God's promises he always keeps!

In summary:

2 Corinthians 4:6 - 11 gives us this to go on... For God, who commanded the light to shine out of the darkness, hath shined in our hearts, to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. 7 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us. 8 We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed; 10 Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body.

So as we walk Christ like, putting on the face of Christ, we are gonna bear the brunt of everything just mentioned in the previous verses! So, let’s stop our whining and complaining and celebrate that we can endure it for Christ's sake.