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When adults respond quickly and consistently to bullying behavior they send the message that it is not acceptable. Research shows this can stop bullying behavior over time.
When adults respond quickly and consistently to bullying behavior they send the message that it is not acceptable. Research shows this can stop bullying behavior over time.
Become an Upstander!
Become an Upstander!
You have the power to prevent bullying! Find more videos and resources here.
You have the power to prevent bullying! Find more videos and resources here.
Download the app!
Download the app!
The optimal first action is to talk to a trusted adult. Sometimes students may wish to report a concern anonymously. LAPS encourages students to download our new reporting app here: https://www.saysomething.net/ The app is staffed 24/7 by trained responders who will make sure the information is shared with school administrators and local law enforcement when necessary.
What is bullying?
What is bullying?
Bullying is defined by Barbara Coloroso as a conscious, willful, deliberate, hostile activity intended to harm. The four markers of bullying are:
Bullying is defined by Barbara Coloroso as a conscious, willful, deliberate, hostile activity intended to harm. The four markers of bullying are:
- An imbalance of power
- Intent to harm
- Threat of further aggression
- When bullying escalates unabated, it results in terror
As adults, we can help youth discern behaviors and decide how to respond.
As adults, we can help youth discern behaviors and decide how to respond.
Is it joking around? Were both people laughing? It is ok to enjoy lighthearted fun with friends.
Is it rude? Was it unintentionally hurtful? Ignore it or use an "I message" to let your friend know how you feel and set a boundary. "I feel... when you... I want you to..."
Is it mean? Was it said on purpose to make fun or make someone feel bad? Try Stop, Walk, and Talk. Tell the person directly to stop. Walk away if they won't listen. Talk to an adult if it continues.
Is it conflict? Were you having an argument or disagreement? Explain your viewpoint, try to see the other person's perspective, choose helpful words, work toward a solution, and agree to disagree if necessary.
Is it bullying? Was it intentionally hurtful and mean-spirited? Bullying is usually targeted toward someone with less power and is often, but not always, repeated and relentless.
- Tell an adult. If they aren't able to help, tell another adult.
- Keep screenshots and evidence.
- Take care of yourself.
- Speak up when you see others being bullied.
You can make a difference! If you see something, say something!
First talk to a trusted adult - parent, teacher, staff member, counselor, coach, or principal.
You can also report school related incidents here: safety@laschools.net or at http://laschools.net/dispute-resolutionprocess/
Encourage students to download our new anonymous reporting app here: https://www.saysomething.net/
Teaching Resources
Teaching Resources
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