Someone you love has died. You are probably having many hurtful and scary thoughts and feelings right now. Together those thoughts and feelings are called grief, which is a normal (though really difficult) thing everyone goes through after someone they love has died. The following ten rights will help you understand your grief and eventually feel better about life again. Use the ideas that make sense to you.
(OUR HOUSE, 2018)
Talk with someone you trust
Exercise, play sports
Listen to favorite music or music that reminds you of the person who dies
Find a way to have some fun, laugh, see a funny movie or TV show
Make a list of your strengths, things you like about yourself
Volunteer (i.e.: animal shelter, hospital, school, etc.)
Take a walk at the beach or somewhere in nature
Wash your face with cool water
Scream into a pillow or into a backpack
Paint or draw a picture
Journal, write a poem or letter
Call Teen Line Number (800/TLC-TEEN) or crisis intervention line 800/999-9999.
(OUR HOUSE, 2018)
You can help support your grieving friend by finding out ways to be there for them and how to listen. It is also important to recognize when your friend doesn’t want to talk about it or they don’t want to be treated any differently than before their person died.
(OUR HOUSE, 2018)