Every family is different, and so every family's routines and structures will look different, too. However, there are lots of tips and tricks to help you build disciplinary structures, rules, daytime and nighttime routines, and communication skills that can help create a safe and happy home for you and your children of any age! Check out these resources to help you create routines that work for you and your family!
Creating structure and rules is not an easy task, whether it's for a workplace, a classroom or your home! If your child struggles with meltdowns when transitioning from one activity to the next or with following the schedule you put in place, check out the CDC's guide to creating structures and rules in your home to help minimize dysregulation and maximize fun family time with your Falcons!
At Fairmount, our Falcons use a school-wide Behavior Expectation Matrix to guide their daily behaviors. The matrix serves as both reminder for adults and children of what expectations are in every area of the building, and as a reference point for increasing desired behaviors and decreasing undesired behaviors.
You can use a matrix in your home just as we use one at school! Posting the rules and behavior expectations and referring to them often helps children to understand what they are expected to do in all areas of your home. Allowing your Falcons to help you come up with the expectations for areas of your home also gives them leadership and stake in following the expectations.
You can find more information about Fairmount's behavior expectations, universal signs and language, and our Matrix HERE. You can also find a sample Home Behavior Matrix and a Blank Home Behavior Matrix below that you can use with your family!
Every home is different and so every home's disciplinary and consequences will look different. There are resources to help families with creating disciplinary practices that work for their home and children.
The CDC has several quick tips and tricks you can try in your home to increase desired behaviors and decrease unwanted behaviors:
Use social rewards (attention) more than material rewards (candy, etc.)
Use a sticker chart or a reward program (Need help creating one? Click HERE!)
Ignore some attention-seeking behaviors, like tantrums
Give a consequence immediately following a behavior
Make sure your consequences match your child's development (Click HERE to learn more about developmental stages)