Keeping Calm to Carry on: Practical Tools to BalanceYour Brain and Nervous System toBe the Best Parent You Can Be - Power Point Presentation and Video Recording.
Regulation Tools
Regulation means balancing your brain and nervous system so that you can be clear and wise in your thinking and decision-making; and calm, kind and patient in your interactions with others.
When your brain and nervous system are balanced, your children's brains and nervous systems become balanced, as well. This is called co-regulation.
Here are some tools/activities to get there:
For Yourself -
4-4-8 Breath (breath in through your nose for a count of 4, hold your breath for a count of 4, breath out through pursed lips for a count of 8).
Hand Shaking (when feeling anxious/stressed) to discharge nervous and physical tension.
Butterfly Tapping (cross forearms and rest hands on upper arms; alternately tap your hands on your arms as you deep breath.
Peaceful Place Visualization (visualize a place real or imagined where you feel relaxed and peaceful; the more sensory details you can imagine the better). You can Butterfly Tap as you visualize.
For Your Children -
Take a deep breath before speaking or acting.
Slow your breathing and speech down.
Walk away and take a break from an interaction/activity.
Go outside and spend time in nature - even if it's only sitting on the porch or laying on the grass lawn.