Thor's Thoughts

Ask Thor

For each edition, Thor will present some real world examples of social and emotional struggles we might go through in our lives. Thor will follow up with advice on how to deal with the situation by resolving the issue at hand. These stories might help you!

Anita Job: Hey Thor. College is coming up quickly and I’d really like to have some money built up as a cushion, but every place I’ve applied to for work has said that they’re not looking for my skills. It’s discouraging and I’m getting nervous. I’m stuck.

Thor: Hey Anita Job, fear not! Have you introduced yourself personally? Face-to-face interaction leaves a long-lasting impression. Dress to impress! Also, get some references from people who know of your work ethic. You can spend some time volunteering in your community to build a reputation! And as always, don’t give up!

B. A. Ware: Hello Thor, I have a friend who I’m in question of right now because a text from them from a few years ago resurfaced with them supporting something ignorant and hurtful. It’s had a negative impact on my thoughts of them and I’m not sure how I should go about it. Please help!

Thor: Thanks for your input! When we are growing up and experiencing new things, we often make mistakes that negatively reflect on who we develop into. With that, please consider what the person in question said. How much do you weigh it on their current character? You might find it helpful to have conversations with this person as well as people close to them to see if they’ve changed. If they can recognize that they made a mistake and their current actions clearly condemn their past ignorance, then consider giving them another chance.

Mike Raffone: Hey Thor, I tried out for the school play and while I got a part, I didn’t get the part I wanted and I’m disappointed. What should I do to get over this?

Thor: First of all, you’ve already won the battle by taking the risk of an audition. You should be proud of yourself for overcoming the challenge! The part you did get might surprise you because directors are skilled at matching personalities to roles. Give the part a chance and make it your own! Break a leg!

Holli Day: Hello Thor, I really want to buy my family presents for the holidays, but I’m broke. They mean so much to me and I want to show how much I care about them. What can I do?

Thor: Here’s the thing: it’s the Season of Giving. That doesn’t necessarily mean you have to buy something. Giving must come from the heart. For instance, spending time with a loved one you haven't seen in a while or helping someone in need in your family shows that you care. Showing your creativity by making something by hand can also be special. All that matters is your thoughtfulness, and don't forget that you’re also a gift for those you love.

X. Benedict: Thor, I heard that you eat ice cream with a fork. Is this true?

Thor: With passion!