This video provides a broad overview of different types of family dynamics.
This TedX Talk looks at creating community as well as the effects of extreme poverty on family and childhood.
We are communal beings and our identity as individuals is inseparable from our place in a greater community. Jay’s experience in faith practice has taught him a great deal about what shapes a healthy identity forming community, he hopes to share these insights with our audience, so they can find communities that love and nurture their own identities. He is a pastor, a leader, and a liar. But he doesn't lie to others, he lies to himself! Jay has big ideas on how to discover your true identity and believes we can find the solution in community.
Amita Gondi talks about something most of us would find shocking – she's one of the only teenagers in her school who didn't own a smartphone, and now, looking back it turned out to be a blessing in disguise. She admits that whatever little success she's had so far has to be attributed to the tough love parenting style that she experienced. Sound a little crazy? Listen to her explain how their maverick approach helped her blaze an unconventional path...
Take a look at this article from Psychology Today which breaks down the five types of dysfunctional families.
Books in the CHS Library for further exploration:
The Miracle and Tragedy of the Dionne Quintuplets by Sarah Elizabeth Miller
"When they were born on May 28, 1934, quintuplets Yvonne, Annette, Cécile, Émilie, and Marie captivated the world, defying medical history with every breath they took. In an effort to protect them from hucksters and showmen, the Ontario government took custody of the quints, sequestering them in a private, custom-built hospital across the road from their family. Here, Sarah Miller reconstructs their unprecedented upbringing with depth and subtlety, illustrating not only their resilience, but also the unique bond of their sisterhood"--Provided by the publisher.
Hidden Valley Road by Robert Kolker
"Don and Mimi Galvin seemed to be living the American dream. After World War II, Don's work with the Air Force brought them to Colorado, where their twelve children perfectly spanned the baby boom: the oldest born in 1945, the youngest in 1965. In those years, there was an established script for a family like the Galvins--aspiration, hard work, upward mobility, domestic harmony--and they worked hard to play their parts. But behind the scenes was a different story: psychological breakdown, sudden shocking violence, hidden abuse. By the mid-1970s, six of the ten Galvin boys, one after the other, were diagnosed as schizophrenic. How could all this happen to one family? Their story offers a shadow history of the science of schizophrenia, from the era of institutionalization, lobotomy, and the schizophrenogenic mother, to the search for genetic markers for the disease, always amidst profound disagreements about the nature of the illness itself...With clarity and compassion, bestselling and award-winning author Robert Kolker uncovers one family's unforgettable legacy of suffering, love and hope"--Provided by publisher.
Far from the Tree by Andrew Solomon
The old adage says that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, meaning that children usually resemble their parents. But what happens when the apples fall somewhere else?
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Teen Self-Esteem and Mental Health
This article from the Newport Academy provides insight into the connection between teen self-esteem and mental health. It also provides thoughts on how parents can support their teens' self-esteem.
Strict Parenting May Cause Adolescents to Act Out
This article from the University of Georgia looks at some of the potentially negative outcomes of strict parenting.
This study published in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health looks at the connections between parenting, self-esteem, and life satisfaction. Pay special attention to the Discussion and Conclusion sections.
Mental Health Effects of Poverty, Hunger, and Homelessness on Children and Teens
Check out this article on the effects of poverty on families - last updated in May of 2024 by the American Psychological Association.
Transformational Power of Love: Supporting Youth Resilience through Loving Kindness
A Psychology Today article from 2019 looks at the power of love in nurturing strong teens.
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Two great audio stories from NPR's Life Kit
These are both about 20-minute listens, or you can read the transcript.
Episode 180 of the American Psychology Association's podcast, "Speaking of Psychology"
This episode explores the influence siblings have on our lives.