BE SAFE BE RESPECTFUL • BE RESPONSIBLE • BE KIND BELONG

How we use our voice determines the quality of our relationships, who we are in the world, and what the world can be and might become.” - Harriet Lerner, The Dance of Connection

Please note there are few subpages to support effective communication. 

EMAIL TIPS & PITFALLS

First, as a reminder: 

PRINCIPLES & PRACTICES SUMMARY

In support of our health, our children, our spirits, our reputations, and our community:

PRINCIPLE A

Our words and our behavior matters. 



PRACTICE #1

We regulate and take responsibility for our behavior & our emotional responses


PRACTICE #2

We avoid speaking about others and we don't listen to gossip

PRINCIPLE B

We are all human beings having human experiences.


PRINCIPLE #3

We choose to be honest & kind with our words and behaviors - always


PRINCIPLE #4

We maintain the dignity of others - especially when there’s a concern

PRINCIPLE C

Honest communication requires we suspend certainty.

PRINCIPLE #5

We check our assumptions & information and are open to other perspectives

PRINCIPLE #6

We assume goodwill in others- especially when they are imperfect

PRINCIPLE D

Positive results require solution-oriented engagement.

PRINCIPLE #7

We seek solutions - we may attack problems, but not each other


PRINCIPLE #8

We 'go to the source' of our concern - privately and respectfully

Would you like an extra 3 hours a week?

A Harvard Business Review article shares a statistic that professional adults  waste about 27 minutes a day checking  (not answering or composing messages - just checking) our inboxes.


27 minutes a day accumulates to over THREE HOURS a week. No one can afford that. 


The same email confirms that “email isn’t the best way to communicate about … well, most things.” In fairness, the author admits that email can be a great way to to share uncomplicated information (unlikely to require clarification or follow-up) that multiple people can/should receive at the same time. 


Science blames egocentric overconfidence, but we all know why email is tricky. While most of us think we are more effective electronic communicators than we actually are: tone, words, intentions are easily misinterpreted costing us even more time in clarifying breakdowns in communication.


Let’s work toward limiting email and improving our communication, our relationships, and enjoy an extra three hours a week. 

Let’s work together toward limiting email to improve communication, support  relationships, & enjoy an extra 3 hours a week!

Email (& General Communication) Etiquette Reminders


References & Works Cited

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