mindfulness

Life is a dance. Mindfulness is witnessing that dance. — Amit Ray


Mindfulness can be understood as the foundation and basic pre-condition for education. Children need to learn to stop their mind wandering and regulate attention and emotions, to deal with feelings of frustration, and to self-motivate. Charlotte Zenner et al. from "Mindfulness-based interventions in schools: a systematic review and meta-analysis"

class activities

Photo of Class Worksheet

emotional Check-in

This worksheet allows students to both self-assess but also share how they are feeling. Similar to the Mood Meter (see below) but in a worksheet format. Linked from Tools for Peace blog.

This article from Edutopia, "Going Beyond 'How Are You Feeling' " had some great suggestions for checking in with students in more nuanced ways.

Age range: 6-12th grade

quick de-stress

This guided breathing exercise teaches students how to shift their breathing from one side of their nose to the other. Linked from Emma Seppala. Seppala also includes a link to easily download them, for easy classroom use in Youtube-blocked settings.

Age range: 6-12th grade

Brain Lifts Weights

Mindfulness How-To Guide

This free PDF, "Stop, Breathe and Think: Mindfulness Activities for the Classroom" created by Tools for Peace, is a wonderful first resource for educators who want a helpful overview of mindfulness and strategies for getting started with students. It discusses the brain science behind mindfulness and includes 7 mindfulness exercises.

Age range: 6-12th grade

guided Gratitude meditation

This guided meditation (5 min) starts with a focus on our body and breath and then shifts to thinking about things in our lives that we are grateful for. The direct link to the Gratitude Meditation is here.

Age range: 6-12th grade

smiling mind app

The Smiling Mind App is a great free introduction to meditation. Simply locate a comfortable spot, plug in earphones, and press play. Since kids practice this exercise privately, there's no need to worry about leading meditation circles full of nervous giggles (the app offers a chance to feel comfortable with meditation alone first). Each lesson is a sequential step toward learning how to meditate.

A list (and reviews) other other apps to help kids of all ages with mental Health is available at Common Sense Media.

Age range: 6-12th grade

Yoga Pose

yoga

Yoga should be taught by a certified instructor, but there might be settings in which students are happy to use yoga independently. Perhaps a library can loan mats for student use, or a teacher wants to lead yoga at the start or end of the day in quiet corner.

This resource is teacher-facing but also includes yoga position cards, easily reproducible for independent student use. It was created by the Physical Education Team: Yoga Resources from Share My Lesson.com.

Age range: 6-12th grade

teaching self-care: breathing

This guide on Teaching Self-Care for Middle and High School: Breathing, from the Morningside Center for Teaching Social Responsibility, is another easily accessible place to start and focuses on mindful breathing strategies. It also gives suggestions for introducing this concept to your students and includes links for breathing guided by imagery and sound. Have five free minutes in your library or classroom? They have multiple linked audio files to guided meditations!

A wonderful new resource I saw linked here was the tree of contemplative practices created by the Center for Contemplative Mind in Society. The multiple branches can be seen as ways to practice different kinds of self (and community) care and healing.

Age range: 6-12th grade

Teaching self-care: music

This guide on Teaching Self-Care for Middle and High School: Music, from the Morningside Center for Teaching Social Responsibility, looks at the ways that music (and dance) can be a balm. Importantly, it has brought people together during this global pandemic.

While students may be familiar with some of these videos which were "trending," they may not have brought the self-awareness that the music was also serving another purpose, an emotional one. Image is from Eric Whitacre's Virtual Choir 4: Fly to Paradise.

Age range: 6-12th grade

29 Simple Journaling Prompts for Anxiety

Journal Prompts

These journal prompts from Happierhuman.com are a good match for advisory/homeroom. Try to offer your students a few options. The website, linked above, provides a bit more detail with each writing prompt.

Want more? These prompts are good for promoting self-esteem: 52 journal prompts from journalbuddies.com

Corbett Harrison's website has a "writing prompt generator," which is not SEL-themed but could help students work at a daily writing practice. They're lots of fun, like this one: "Can it be saved? Think of something that is ruined when it's totally wet: like a newspaper or a piece of cheese. Write a scene (truth or fiction) that involves you and a soaked item."

Another idea is to ask your students to go on a 15 minute slow paced, silent, technology-free walk in which they observe their surroundings and use their senses. After they are done, they can do some reflective writing. This may quickly become a refreshing and relaxing practice for them.

Age range: 6-12th grade

Virtual Calming room

Another robust resource is the Virtual Calming Room, a website I found through the Facebook group, Social and Emotional Learning. This site has excellent embedded videos that help people calm themselves through sounds and music, visual relaxation, guided breathing and meditation, yoga and movement, live cameras, and virtual field trips. It also links to timers and relevant apps. Resources are divided between elementary and secondary levels. One of my favorite videos from the site is embedded to the left, 3 hours of relaxing jellyfish.

creating a peace corner

There are so many benefits to starting a mindfulness practice. Lisa Melendez, in her chapter "Shifting the Pace," from Recipes for Mindfulness in Your Library," explained perfectly that "by exposing students (and others) to tools that encourage a slower, calmer pace for engaging with information, I believe we are preparing them to thrive in our information-saturated, fast-paced world" (89).

One practice that we've included in our library at Brooklyn Tech is a Peace Corner, which grew out of the Responsive Classroom curriculum. Ours is a space where students can draw, meditate and use tools to help themselves focus. Our Mindfulness Monday teacher-led meditation was also held in the Peace Corner.

Colored pencils and coloring book page

meditative coloring

Many students find coloring to be a way they can clear their minds and release tension. Many librarians may use student-colored mandalas to decorate their space. Some popular titles are:

Brilliant Beasts --Favorite Illustrations from Coloring Adventures, by Millie Marotta (2019)

Adult Coloring Book: Stress Relieving Patterns (2016)

glitter jar

Our high schoolers were transfixed by our glitter jars, as were a number of teachers who promptly requested jars for their classrooms. There is something hypnotic about watching glitter sparkle and slowly settle, and it can often help students focus and decompress and breathe.

Below is a website with tips for making your own glitter jar. (Based on my experimentation, clear glue is easier than corn syrup.)

Spruce Crafts Glitter Jar Instructions

other useful props

There are lots of props which might help students unwind and focus. The blog entry "Setting up a Peace Corner and Teaching Students how to Use it," from TheResponsiveCounselor.com lists and details many other helpful items.

At Brooklyn Tech our students have enjoyed liquid timers, coloring, and glitter jars. Stress balls were tossed around the library and promptly removed (shaking my head). Our materials were either donated or funded through DonorsChoose.org grants.

breathe board

A “breathe board” is a set of shapes or lines that you can follow with your fingers as you breathe in and out. It’s helpful to try a few different options! Examples are listed on Using Shapes to Teach Deep Breathing.

This concept of compassion meditation and breathing exercises is called nyasam, or "gesture." I found a lovely YouTube video that demonstrates this technique using your five fingers: Kids Meditation-Five Finger Breathing.

Age range: 2th-12th grade

Card decks

Another resource that looks intriguing (although I have not used these yet) is The Stress Reduction Card Deck for Teens: 52 Essential Mindfulness Skills, created by Gina Biegel. She also created a Be Mindful Card Deck for Teens. I can easily imagine these circulating or being used in our library (or in an advisory/homeroom context).

Age range: 7-12th grade

set expectations

Having a poster with guidelines will both demarcate your Peace Corner and also set clear expectations of how is should be used.

Library Display ideas


School Library SEL Display Guide (1).pdf

mood meter & ruler

mood meter overview

Learn more about how the Mood Meter works and how being an emotion scientist can help you identify the best tasks for your moods.

ruler

This framework for handling emotions, from Marc Brackett's book Permission to Feel, is an acronym for managing emotions:

R: recognize the occurence of an emotion

U: understanding the cause of the emotion

L: labeling the emotional experience and finding a precise term to describe it

E: expressing, which is knowing how and when to display our emotions

R: regulating, which involves monitoring, tempering and modifying emotional reactions in helpful ways

(from Permission to Feel, by Marc Brackett)

RULER also is the name of a related full curriculum from the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. Learn more at their website.

why start a meditation practice?

voices of mindfulness

This video (3 min) features youth and young adults discussing their experiences practicing mindfulness, and how mindfulness has benefited different aspects of their lives. The video also shows youth practicing mindfulness, and includes insights from a health professional and mindfulness teacher.

Some students may benefit from understanding the benefits of meditation. This infographic was created by Emma Seppala, Science Director, Stanford Center For Compassion And Altruism Research And Education and Co-Director Wellness, Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. Link to Emma Seppala's website.

book recommendations


Below are some books which were selected because of their thematic connection to the SEL skill of developing a a practice of mindfulness. They are divided into middle grades and high school books. For a full list of SEL-themed books, look at the Book Recommendations page. There is a linked spreadsheet version which includes much more information about each title, related resources, as well as my mode of selection.

mindfulness titles: middle grades

Be Mindful and Stress Less: 50 Ways to Deal with Your (Crazy) Life

by Gina Biegel (2018)

This accessible, user-friendly toolbox for teens introduces them to mindfulness practice and shows them how it can ease their fears and anxieties, reduce their impulsivity, help them develop a more measured response to the stressors around them, and build strong relationships. In fifty very short activity "chapters," mindfulness teacher and family therapist Gina Biegel offers meditations, breathing and thought exercises, and stress-reducing solutions that can be done as an ongoing practice or in the moment.

Just Breathe

by Mallika Chopra (2018)

Just Breathe is a fun and accessible, fully illustrated go-to meditation guide written by none other than Mallika Chopra, wellness expert and the daughter of Deepak Chopra. For kids ages 8 to 12, this book is full of specific exercises to help deal with day-to-day challenges and tips to lead a healthier, happier, and more connected life. The book includes practical advice on breathing techniques and guided meditations for a number of topics and scenarios, including:

  • Dealing with stress

  • Getting to sleep

  • Building self-confidence

  • Focusing on school/tests/other work

  • Ridding oneself of anxiety

This moment is your life (and so is this one) : a fun and easy guide to mindfulness, meditation, and yoga

by Mariam Gates (2018)

Don't just do something, be here.

The key to happiness is being able to find comfort in this moment, here and now. When you are completely present and not distracted by regrets, worries, and plans, even for a little while, you begin to feel more confident and can deal more easily with everything you experience. This is mindfulness- paying attention to this very moment, on purpose and without judgment--simply being present with curiosity.

This engaging guide, packed with simple exercises and endearing full-color artwork, provides a handy starting point for bringing mindfulness into your daily life. Chapters on meditation, yoga, and mindful breathing explain the benefits of these practices, and you are free to pick and choose what to try. There are quick exercises throughout, and a more extensive tool kit at the end of each chapter. The final chapter offers satisfying five-day challenges that map out ways to pull all of the book's mindfulness techniques together in your day-to-day life.

With the appeal of a workbook or guided journal, and full of examples relevant to tweens and teens today, this book will be your trusted companion as you begin the valuable, stress-relieving work of being still with skill.

mindfulness titles: high school

Stop, Breathe, Chill

by Beth Stebner (2016)

How're You Feeling Today?

Stressed?

Worried?

Anxious?

Stop. Breathe. Chill. These mindfulness exercises will teach you how to focus on the present and stop freaking out about the future. Each entry tackles the sort of stuff life throws at you every day. Whether it's a situation with friends, issues with family, or the pressures of school, you'll learn how to live in the moment and stop stressing out.

It's going to be okay. Armed with these meditation skills and mantras, worrying will be a thing of the past. Now take a breath, relax, and start feeling better about today!

Mindfulness and meditation: handling life with a calm and focused mind

by Whitney Stewart (2020)

From hormones to homework, parents to peers, health issues to bad habits, life can be a pressure cooker leading to anxiety and even thoughts of suicide. How can we find relief? Author Whitney Stewart introduces readers to the practice of mindfulness. With its roots in ancient Buddhist teachings, mindfulness--the practice of purposefully focusing attention on the present moment--can change a person's approach to stress, develop skills to handle anxiety and depression, and provide a sense of awareness and belonging. Stewart guides readers through how to get started with meditation as well as provides specific exercises for examining emotions, managing stress, checking social media habits and wellness routines, and setting intentions to increase happiness.

Meditation is not what you think: mindfulness and why it is so important

by Jon Kabat-Zinn (2018)

Welcome to a master class in mindfulness.

Jon Kabat-Zinn is regarded as "one of the finest teachers of mindfulness you'll ever encounter" (Jack Kornfield). He has been teaching the tangible benefits of meditation in the mainstream for decades. Today, millions of people around the world have taken up a formal mindfulness meditation practice as part of their everyday lives. But what is meditation anyway? And why might it be worth trying? Or nurturing further if you already have practice?

Meditation Is Not What You Think answers those questions. Originally published in 2005 as part of a larger book entitled Coming to Our Senses, it has been updated with a new foreword by the author and is even more relevant today. If you're curious as to why meditation is not for the "faint-hearted," how taking some time each day to drop into awareness can actually be a radical act of love, and why paying attention is so supremely important, consider this book an invitation to learn more--from one of the pioneers of the worldwide mindfulness movement.