Take a breath. Unclench your jaw. Relax your shoulders.
Maine 24-Hour Crisis Center
1-888-568-1112
24/7 TextLine: 741-741 (live, trained crisis counselor)
​​ https://www.maine.gov/suicide/index.htm
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
1-800-273-TALK (8255) or call 988
Cumberland County Crisis Hotline
207-774-HELP
www.OpportunityAlliance.org - chat
TREVOR 24/7 Free & Confidential Hotline for LGBTQ Youth
1-866-488-7386
TrevorText: 678-678
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
Maine Intentional Warm Line- 24/7 peer-to-peer service focused on encouraging and fostering recovery
1-866-771-9276
Child Abuse Hotline (DHHS)
1-800-452-1999
https://www.maine.gov/dhhs/families
Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence Hotline
1-866-834-4357
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-7233
Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault - Support Hotline
1-800-871-7741
Maine Al-Anon
1-800-498-1844
For meeting information: (888) 425-2666
Narcotics Anonymous
Help Line: (800) 992-0401
For meetings and information: (732) 933-0462
2-1-1 MAINE - directory for 8,000+ health & human services
Dial 2-1-1 (toll free hotline, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week)
877-463-6207
NAMI Maine (National Alliance on Mental Illness)
For help navigating the mental health system and finding services
Helpline: 800-464-5767
Maine Behavioral Health - mental health services for youth, adults, and residential treatment programs
844-292-0111
Use the Virtual Calming Room when you're feeling overwhelmed or anxious or when a counselor is not available.
Short-Term Stress Relief Strategies:
Breathe: In new experiences, we can forget to breathe. Take a moment before heading to a new class or starting a new task to pause and take a few breaths. Try out this breathing bubble for practice. Just focusing on your breath or changing the way you breathe can make a big difference to your overall stress level. Breathing techniques can calm your body and your brain in just a few minutes. The best news is no one around you will even know you're doing them. Here are 2 examples:
Belly Breathing: Breathe in through your nose and watch your belly fill with air. Count slowly to three as you inhale. Hold for one second and then slowly breathe out through your nose as you count to three again.
Pizza Breathing: Pretend you're holding a slice of hot pizza up to your face like you're about to eat it. Take a slow breath in through your nose to the count of 4, as if you're inhaling its smell. Hold it for 1 count, and then exhale through your mouth as if you're blowing on the pizza to cool it off to the count of 4. Hold it for 1 count and then repeat.
Guided Imagery: Take a short vacation in your mind. Imagine yourself in your "happy place." Simply close your eyes and walk yourself through a peaceful scene. Allow yourself to feel the sensory experiences as though you're really there. After a few minutes, open your eyes and return to the present moment.
Meditate: You might develop a mantra that you repeat in your mind as you take slow deep breaths. Or, you might take a few minutes to practice mindfulness, which involves being in the moment. Simply pay attention to what you see, hear, taste, touch, and smell. When you're focused on the here-and-now, you won't be able to ruminate about something that already happened and you can't worry about something in the future. Meditation and mindfulness take practice, but it can make a big difference in your overall stress level as it brings you back to the present.Â
Progressive Muscle Relaxation: This involves relaxing all the muscles in your body, group by group. To practice, you can start with a few deep breaths. Then, practice tightening and relaxing each muscle group, starting with your forehead and moving down to your toes. With practice, you'll learn to recognize tension and tightness in your muscles and you'll be able to relax more easily. Each time you practice, however, you should experience a feeling of relaxation sweeping through your body.
Maine DOE Attendance Resources
Report any incident of bullying or cyberbullying at BEHS here.
* ASK YOUR SCHOOL COUNSELOR FOR MORE SPECIFIC THERAPIST REFERRALS *
Center for Grieving Children
207-775-5216
American School Counseling Association
https://www.schoolcounselor.org/
American Counseling Association
School Social Work Association of America
The Yellow Tulip Project
https://theyellowtulipproject.org/
PsychologyToday Search Engine
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us
State of Maine Foster Care
Maine Homeless Education / McKinney-Vento Info
https://www.maine.gov/doe/schools/safeschools/counseling/highmobility/homelessed
Maine DOE LGBTQ Resources
https://www.maine.gov/doe/lgbtq/parent
Trans Lifeline
Q Chat Space--online live chat discussion groups for LGBTQ teens age 13-19
GLSEN
Equality Maine
Portland Outright
https://www.facebook.com/PortlandOutright
GLAD (LGBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders)
Maine Youth Action Network
OUTMaine
Terminology
https://outmaine.org/resources/terminology/
MaineTransNet
Intersex Society of America
https://isna.org/faq/what_is_intersex/
Gender Spectrum
https://www.genderspectrum.org/resources?category=education-and-gender-expansive-students#more- 424
Bisexual Resource Center
The Asexual Visibility & Education Network
Safe Schools Coalition
http://www.safeschoolscoalition.org/
GLAAD - Trans Media Advocacy
Pine Tree Legal (free legal assistance for low-income families)
Maine Division of Juvenile Services: Juvenile Justice Advisory Group
Maine.gov Services Page
Kids in the House
https://www.kidsinthehouse.com/
Maine Family Planning
https://mainefamilyplanning.org/for-educators/teaching-materials/
Apps for Kids to Stay Focused
National Center on Safe Supportive Learning Environments (NCSSLE)
Maine DOE SEL Resources