Managing Stress
Here are some healthy ways to cope with stress:
Take breaks from watching, reading, or listening to news stories, including those on social media. Hearing about current events repeatedly can be upsetting.
Take care of your body. Take deep breaths, stretch, or meditate, try to eat healthy, well-balanced meals, exercise regularly, get plenty of sleep, avoid alcohol and drug use.
Make time to unwind. Try to do some other activities you enjoy.
Connect with others. Talk with people you trust about how you are feeling.
Know the facts to help reduce stress - Knowing the facts and stopping the spread of rumors can help reduce stress.
Take care of your mental health- Mental health is an important part of overall health and wellbeing. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It may also affect how we handle stress, relate to others, and make choices during an emergency.
Look out for common signs of distress: Feelings of fear, anger, sadness, worry, numbness, or frustration. Changes in appetite, energy, and activity levels. Difficulty concentrating and making decisions. Difficulty sleeping or nightmares. Physical reactions, such as headaches, body pains, stomach problems, and skin rashes. Worsening of chronic health problems. Increased use of alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs.
Seek help when needed– If stress impacts activities of your daily life for several days or weeks, talk to your family, a clergy member, counselor, health care professional, or utilize local and/or national resources.
Break tasks into small steps → Focus on one assignment or goal at a time.
Get outside → 10 minutes of fresh air or sunlight can boost mood.
Limit screen time before bed → Try for at least 30 minutes of no screens to help sleep.
Move your body → Stretching, walking, dancing—anything counts.
Talk it out → With a friend, family member, counselor, or journal.
Practice self-compassion → When you mess up, try saying to yourself:
“I’m having a hard time right now, but I’m doing my best.”
Asking for Help
You feel down, anxious, or overwhelmed most days for 2+ weeks.
You’re having trouble eating, sleeping, or concentrating because of how you feel.
You’re thinking about hurting yourself or wishing you weren’t here.
📌 You deserve support—talk to a school counselor, trusted adult, or mental health professional. You're not alone.
“I’ve been having a hard time and I’m not sure what to do.”
“I think I need to talk to someone about how I’m feeling.”
“School/life feels really overwhelming right now—can I get some support?”
Resources
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — Call or text 988 (24/7, free, confidential)
Crisis Text Line — Text HELLO to 741741
NJ PerformCare — Call 1-877-652-7624 (for youth mental health services in New Jersey)
The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ youth) — Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678
1-800-RUNAWAY — Call 1-800-786-2929 or chat online (for teens in crisis or needing a safe space)
Teen Line (peer support) — Call or text (310) 855-4673 or message online at teenlineonline.org
Seize the Awkward — Tips for starting mental health conversations: seizetheawkward.org
JED Foundation — Mental health tools made for students: jedfoundation.org
Talk to your school counselor, psychologist, nurse, or social worker — they’re there to help, not judge.
See if your school has mental health clubs, peer support groups, or stress management workshops.
Ask about flexible deadlines or adjustments if you're struggling.