Parents’ Guide to Success in Instrumental Music
“…but I don't know anything about music! How can I help my child succeed??”
Whether or not you are a musician, you CAN help your child to be successful in their musical endeavors! Take a moment to read through some of these suggestions. As always, please feel free to contact your child’s teacher with any questions.
~The Shenendehowa Instrumental Music Team
1. Provide a quiet practice space.
Your child’s practice space should be a quiet, well-lit part of the house that’s free from as many distractions as possible. There should be a music stand and a pencil available. Folding music stands are relatively inexpensive, and can be purchased online or at any local music rental company. Encourage them to review their playing posture, their weekly assignments, and any technique checklists before beginning, and then let them get to work!
2. Set a practice time.
One of the most commonly heard excuses is that the student didn't have time to practice this week. "I did not make the time" might be a more accurate statement for this. We always suggest to students and families that they set a specific practice time at home. Perhaps it could be after dinner, before school, or after soccer practice. Whatever the time is, try to make it consistent. If practicing an instrument is part of the child's daily routine, practice time will become less of a battle!
3. Be resourceful.
At some point this year, your child may ask you a question about their instrument, or about something in their lesson book. You may be completely confused as to the correct answer. This is where your child’s music teacher comes in. Please do not hesitate to contact us! We am here to help.
4. Growth may be in small steps. Remember to praise even the little moments!
Learning to play an instrument is certainly a difficult task for an elementary student. But, let’s face it–listening to those beginning sounds can be just as much of a challenge! We cannot stress this enough ... BE POSITIVE! You may hear some interesting sounds coming out of the instrument at first. Try to find something that they are succeeding at or at least improving upon and PRAISE them for it! Your approval and encouragement feeds their desire to improve. Whether it is music, sports, or academics, your praise and interest in your child’s success is the BEST motivator for them. Encourage them to play a mini recital for you every other week. Or, maybe have them play their newest piece for their grandparents and family members over the phone! Be involved, show interest, and most of all, stay positive for them!
5. Remember the value of perseverance.
Learning an instrument is a lifelong endeavor, during which there will be quite a few high and low points. Children do not typically have the big picture view of where they are on the timeline. They tend to become easily frustrated when not able to immediately correct a problem. Chances are that they will eventually work through their frustration and see the light on the other side. Remind your child that the more time they spend practicing, the better they will sound, which will make them want to keep up with their practicing at home.
Thank you for your wonderful support of the Shenendehowa Music Program!