2 How Does A Man Fall In Love ?

- How does a man fall in Love?

When does a man fall in Love? Love is a very complex element existing on this planet. We have a number of examples around us to feel it but sometimes we couldn’t find any word to explain those feelings. Undoubtedly, every man and woman wants to love and be loved. On one hand, it has become difficult to build up meaningful relationships in the current era, while on the other hand, without seeking for love, it just happens and all of sudden a person realises that he/she fell for someone.

Erich Wolf Segal writes:

“True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked”

Usually, a man passes through different stages to fall in love. Love initially begins from visual creation which ended up at the comfort zone,

- Love and Visual creation

It’s obvious that a man fell in love with a woman’s outer beauty prior to her inner beauty. No matter how she looks, because it’s his own perspective, what attracts him. Without attraction, there could be no love.

- Respect builds leisurely

Sometimes this is the thing that many women don’t understand as they are mostly attractive to someone who don’t respect or she could be in fear of being left behind. Man can be in a relationship with woman, even if he doesn’t respect. This can a cynical phase to observe man but it is quite often the ease that a man doesn’t respect a woman as a default. Man, always played slowly, it doesn’t mean that he could never respect any woman, because when there is love respect became the priority for man,

- Man is slow to trust

Like every woman, man is also in fear about being taken advantage of him. In any relationship “trust” is the major tool that keeps its stronger by every passing day. Man can only trust a woman once he is in all comfort with her. It's better to move slower than running into hell like life. Love always require trust and its always better for a man to move slower in trust case. But once it built up, nothing can stop a man loving her woman.

- Provider of happiness

Man wants to be appreciated on each ground by his woman, this is the reason why he like to make her laugh and perform different tasks that is attractive to his lady. Man starts enhancing his positive energies and even if he is already optimistic then he could be seen more than usual. At this stage he started talking favourably about the woman he fell for, to his family and friends.

- Manly freedom

Typically, man and woman never accept the flaws of each other. By the passing time they started swallow the flaws as well. This doesn’t mean that being disloyal to partner can also be neglected, here it's about the flaws in person. Whether the man like to stay with his friends more often than his lady, in the same way what type of spaces between the both become the reason of daily misunderstandings. Unapologetically, Man, always prefer freedom. Once he found a compatibility between him and his lady he would automatically starting falling for her unknowingly.

- Man’s comfort zone

Both man and woman tend to have same feelings in love. Man fell for a woman who understand him and will always be there for him under all circumstances. Because man always fell in love with woman who keeps him in a comfort zone, there is no fixed time for a man to fell in love, he always seeks a comfortable and trustworthy partner. To whom he can share everything about himself and stays more closer than a best friend,

Man, probably falls in love with a woman who appreciates him. In love, he will try his best to be the person he can be. As he falls in love, he starts making efforts to change himself according to her lady and this happens because a man wants to be a perfect example of a wise person for her lady.

A number of men, could never express their actual feelings in words even if they wanted to. This is the why man seems impulsive in love. He tries his utmost to keep his bond more stable by hook or by crook. Man, only bothers such impulsive decisions for his lady if he became serious about his relationship with her, typically, he prefers all the impulsive decisions once he realises that he is in love, because now he actually wants to make her happy.

At this stage, man is clearly in love and now he knows he has to manage his lady’s and commitment. It may seem unrealistic that a man could can decide what he actually wants, that’s why it’s a little difficult to estimate whether a man has fallen for a woman or not,

A man wants his lady to love him desperately. It’s the highest achievement for a man once he is gaining her love. Now. All he is worrying about is how to keep her happy enough to be loved. He starts showing his endless efforts to prove himself. At this stage, a man is complete and found his lady as the peaceful place ever existed in the world. He wants to feel like a superhero, which realistically helps him stay committed to his love. He wants to feel praised by his love instead of puting down. He really wants to have a great and erotic sex life. By sharing his fears, desires, dreams, pain, all he want in revenge is truth from his partner.

Last but not the least, the last requirement that fulfils all the remaining spaces, is Faith. Faith is like an umbilical cord that connects the two love birds with each other. It a blind element, that demands no reason or any proof or justification. It is something that creates on its own.

Mulana Rumi quoted about love that:

“love is the sea where intellect drowns”

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