How To Make Him Fall In Love Again After Breakup

HOW TO MAKE HIM FALL IN LOVE AGAIN AFTER THE BREAKUP


[BY SciDivaAK]

[JUST AN ARTICLE ABOUT RELATIONSHIP] Love can be one of the most rewarding and beautiful emotions that you will ever experience. Everyone wished their relationship to last. But you can't help it when things don't go on as you want. You can't avoid break up. After going through the stormy days after break up, you'll realize that you miss him. You think it's normal because you haven't yet get used to it without him in your life. As the time pass by, turns out things doesn't get better. You miss him. You want him back. In fact, you still love him. How to deal with all these feeling? How can you get him back?

1. Don't Try To Get Him Back: The first way to get him back is never try to get him back. When you are overwhelmed with missing him, you seem to can't control yourself. You call him, you asked to meet him, you do anything to chase him. It will make you lose your power and dignity, girls. He will think you psycho instead.

2.Be a Better You: No matter how good of a person you might be, there is always room for improvement. Take some time to really reflect on yourself, your choices, your role in the relationship. Making much-needed improvements to yourself will not only give you a better chance at making him fall in love again but can also make you feel better about yourself. 1

3. Change Your Look: Make over never goes wrong. Do make overs to your look. Try a new haircut you never have before, change the way you dress, put on some bold red lipstick. This will make you feel freshened and ready for a new start. For a bonus, you will surprise your ex upon seeing this revolution and hey, he might fall for you once again.2

4. Build A New Lifestyle And Show Him: Everyone will have a hard time during their break up, but you have no choice beside move on. Face ahead the days without him, and think of what you can do to improve yourself. Make a new lifestyle because your daily life is indeed different than it was. Create a new activity to spend those times. Meet your old friend on the weekends 1 https://lovedevani.com/ways-to-get-him-back-after-a-breakup 2 https://www.rebeccacairns.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-again-after-a-breakup/ and everything you'd loved to do. Posts them onto the social media and let him know how you enjoy yourself now.

5. HONEST AND UPFRONT: Once a bond has been reestablished, it is super important that you be honest and upfront about absolutely anything and everything. Lay it all out on the table. How you feel, what you want/need, and what the ultimate goal is. You both need to be on the same page. This will not only significantly increase the chances of bringing back old feelings on his part (and on yours) but will also clear the way for a healthier relationship going forward.

6. USE REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY: Blatantly tell your ex if you see him or her that, yeah you weren't right for each other or that things could never work out. Your ex will hear this and immediately think the opposite. No one wants to hear they were so obviously not the one and that you can so clearly see that.3

7. LISTEN, DON'T JUST TALK! When you want to please and make a man fall for you, it is important that you listen. Don't just talk. If you chatter incessantly when you are nervous, find some other way to cope with your nerves. Many girls make the mistake of talking more than they listen when they are around a potential male partner. Girls aren't the only ones, of course. Many men do the same thing. But this is a big mistake that can easily cost you getting the man of your dreams.

8. SMILE AND LAUGH: When you are working on ways to make a guy fall in love with you, it is essential to smile and laugh. Don’t present an unfriendly face. Be as outgoing, friendly, and social as you feel comfortable being.Tell him enjoyable stories, and don't be afraid to laugh. Remember not to go overboard and look like a comedian.4

9. Have Good Morals: 3 https://thoughtcatalog.com/john-alex-clark/2016/07/how-to-make-someone-fall-in-love-with-you-again/ 4 https://pairedlife.com/dating/How-To-Make-A-Man-Fall-In-Love-With-You-13-Tips-On-Making-A-GuyLike-You Good morals are a necessity in convincing a man to love you. Nobody wants to get involved with someone who can't be trusted. Men like women who are disciplined and are not pushovers. Behave maturely towards him and be respectful of him, just as you expect him to be respectful towards you. Furthermore, have respect for yourself and your values; know who you are and what you stand for.


What Not to Do: • Avoid Playing the Jealousy Game: Although many will tell you that trying to make him jealous could help, it is not a good idea. While jealousy might bring him back, the situation will likely cause some problems in the long run. Instead, show him that you are doing okay, show him how happy you are, just don’t use a rebound relationship to do so. Not if you want him to come back for good. • Be Careful Not to Lose Your Identity: It can be easy to turn yourself into exactly what he wants, and it might even win back his affections, albeit likely temporarily, but it is neither smart nor healthy. No matter the amount of pain caused by missing him, don’t try to be something you are not. Love connections can be a tricky thing, and each situation is different. It isn’t something that should be taken lightly. If you are going to put in the time and effort into winning him back, be sure that it is what you really want. This should never be done solely to get back some of your self-esteem or to get revenge. If your intentions are pure, then as cheesy as it sounds, you need to listen to your heart. Good luck!

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