There are support groups, charities, agencies and organisations that can help families and individuals, young and old, with almost every issue you or someone you know might have. We have listed a wide range of free support links here but there are others should you choose to search online for alternatives. The information and links are organised into categories, however please keep in mind that some do have cross over to different categories on this page. If you are worried about something, it is likely that you will find a link here that you can follow to gain more information and support.
We think that the most important thing that a parent or carer can do to help their child or young person to navigate the online world safely is to have "the conversation". Spend time with your child, exploring their online world with them. We have collected some resources here which we hope will help spark that "conversation".
Some of us have been teachers for a long time, and we have seen how the introduction of digital technology has changed the way our student think and behave. Click on the arrow to find out more about digital habits, their effects, and what we might do to help our young people cope with all this.
The average adult now spends over 7 hours daily on screens outside of work.
That's more than 100 days per year of continuous screen time.
This chronic digital exposure is linked to:
• Disrupted sleep
• Increased anxiety
• Physical symptoms
• Reduced deep thinking
• Accelerated brain aging
But even short digital breaks show remarkable benefits.
1. Sleep Architecture
Blue light from screens suppresses melatonin production for hours after exposure.
This doesn't just delay sleep - it degrades the quality of your deep sleep cycles.
Your brain's crucial cleanup processes happen during these cycles.
Just one hour less screen time before bed can significantly increase your deep sleep.
2. Dopamine Regulation
Social media, news feeds, and notifications create an addictive dopamine loop.
This actually rewires your brain’s reward system over time.
You begin craving the quick hits that screens provide.
This makes slower, more meaningful activities feel less rewarding.
3. Attention Fragmentation
The constant interruptions from notifications erode your capacity for sustained focus.
Each notification triggers a stress response, even if you don’t check it.
Research shows it takes considerable time to fully refocus after an interruption.
Most people check their phones dozens of times daily – consider the impact on focus.
4. Physical Posture
"Tech neck" isn't just uncomfortable - it accelerates spinal degeneration.
The human head weighs about 10-12 pounds when properly aligned.
Tilting forward dramatically increases the effective weight on your spine.
At typical texting angles, this creates substantial pressure on your neck and upper back.
5. Eye Health
Prolonged screen time contributes to digital eye strain and dry eye syndrome.
Your natural blink rate drops significantly when using screens.
This affects tear film distribution and accelerates eye fatigue.
After 40, our eyes are already producing fewer tears naturally.
6. Relationship Quality
Even having a phone visible during conversations reduces empathy and connection.
“Phubbing” (phone snubbing) substantially increases relationship conflict.
Children whose parents are frequently on devices show higher rates of behavioral issues.
Digital distraction robs us of the micro-moments that build meaningful connections.
7. Cognitive Processing
Digital overload overwhelms our working memory.
Your brain wasn’t designed to process the volume of information we now consume daily.
This contributes to decision fatigue and reduced analytical thinking.
Deep reading of physical books activates different neural pathways than skimming content online.
8. Stress Levels
Constant connectivity keeps your nervous system in a low-grade fight-or-flight state.
Email checking alone increases cortisol levels and heart rate.
News consumption, especially negative headlines, can trigger anxiety that persists for hours.
Your body can’t distinguish between digital and physical threats.
9. Creativity Barriers
Boredom is the gateway to creativity – but we’ve eliminated it with constant stimulation.
The moment we feel slightly bored, we reach for our phones.
This prevents the mind-wandering state where creative connections happen.
True innovation requires periods of disconnection.
10. Nature Deficit
We evolved outdoors, but now spend most of our time inside, often on screens.
Natural settings restore attention and lower stress hormones.
The “30-30-30” rule works wonders:
30 minutes outside, within 30 minutes of waking, 30 days in a row.
This resets your circadian rhythm and provides lasting benefits.
Here’s what actually works for a digital detox:
Start small – no devices for the first/last hour of your day.
Create physical boundaries – no screens in bedrooms or during meals.
Use “batching” for emails and messages – check at specific times, not constantly.
Remember: The goal isn’t digital abstinence – it’s intentional use.
Digital tools should serve you, not control you.
What would you add?
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What Our Students Say
We asked our students to create some media which would help parents with "the conversation" about Social Media.
Our Digital Champions are working hard to produce more of these short videos. Please check back soon to see what they have achieved!
Amaze.org
This American Youtube channel includes some excellent resources - we use them in PSHE.
The channel includes loads more videos which you can use to spark a conversation with your child about their online safety, as well as loads more on Sex Ed.
The National College publishes free parent guides on a whole host of online safety issues. you can set up a free account and access their resources, or click on an image to download one of their resources from the list here.
What you Need to Know: TikTok | Free Online Safety Guide
This free guide explores the potential online safety risks of TikTok, letting you know how to safeguard children and young people who use the platform.
What You Need to Know about Snapchat | Free E-Safety guide
This free guide brings you up to date with the risks associated with Snapchat, and lets you know how best to safeguard young people who use the app.
What You Need to Know about WhatsApp | Free E-Safety Guide
This free guide details the risks associated with popular messaging app WhatsApp, and lets you know how to safeguard younger users.