Many aspects make up a good support group for disability grief.
Some tips and tricks for running a disability grief support group are listed below
Encourage the expression of emotions
Expressing motions, regardless of being positive or negative, can help someone process what they are going through and give them some relief (Davidhizar, 1997)Â
Sharing experiences between group members can forge community and increase social support (Meade et al., 2018)
Practice empathy and compassion
Sometimes listening is the best thing you can do when someone is struggling with emotions surrounding their disability
Urge other group members to practice good listening skills and refrain from discouraging comments towards the speaker
Emphasize the importance of being non-judgmental (Davidhizar, 1997)
Validating someone's experience is key in providing support to others in the group (Swartwood et al., 2011)
Promote healthy coping strategies
There are many ways to cope with the difficult emotions that can come with being disabled. It is important to promote healthy coping mechanisms when possible
Examples of this could be box breathing, using fidgets, journaling, and expressing emotion through art
Foster a positive environment
Including "moments of joy" during meetings
Encourage members to share positive moments from the past week as a way to increase moral and maintaining a positive perspective on life (Davidhizar, 1997)
This can also include a specific channel in a group discord to share positive moments with others