Maintain a friendly and professional demeanor.
Be mindful of guests' attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors.
Use trauma-informed communication skills.
Please do not feel as though you have to fix any of the guests’ problems.
Active listening is crucial in all areas of life,
from supporting loved ones to dealing with colleagues.
It helps avoid misunderstandings and reduces potential conflicts, making communication more effective and making the other person feel valued.
Active Listening Tips
Face the speaker and maintain eye contact: Use appropriate eye contact and open body language to show attentiveness.
Pay attention to non-verbal cues: Observe facial expressions, tone of voice, and gestures to understand the full message.
Do not interrupt: Allow the speaker to finish their thoughts without interruptions.
Listen without judging: Focus on understanding the speaker without making immediate judgments or conclusions.
Avoid planning your response: Concentrate on listening rather than thinking about what to say next.
Show that you’re listening: Use nods, smiles, and small verbal acknowledgments to encourage the speaker.
Do not impose your opinions: Offer a supportive ear rather than unsolicited advice.
Stay focused: Eliminate distractions and mentally repeat the speaker’s words to maintain concentration.
Ask questions: Clarify and show interest by asking relevant questions.
Paraphrase and summarize: Reflect on what you’ve heard to confirm understanding and allow for corrections.
And remember, practice makes perfect. Old habits are hard to break, so you’ll need to make a conscious effort to become an active listener. Try spending a week summarizing the main points or outcomes at the end of each conversation or meeting. This will help you get into the habit :)
Source: British Heart Foundation-Heart Magazine-10 Tips for Active Listening