In today’s fast-paced world, the Catholic Church must place marriage and family at the forefront of its mission. Why? Because the foundation of society is built on the strength of sacramental marriages and vibrant, holy families. When we look at the challenges facing our world—rising divorce rates, family instability, and a decline in moral values—we can trace these issues back to the dramatic decrease in sacramental marriage.
Let’s take a moment to reflect on the stark differences between family life in 1960 and today. Back then, a remarkable 73% of children lived in households with two married parents, and the average family size was a robust 3.67. The divorce rate was a mere 9%, a testament to the commitment couples had to their vows. In contrast, today only about 65% of children enjoy the stability of a two-parent home, family sizes have shrunk to an average of 2.53, and the divorce rate has skyrocketed, with estimates ranging from 40% to 50%. These statistics tell a compelling story: the traditional family structure, once a cornerstone of society, is under siege.
The implications of these changes are profound. Families are the primary teachers of faith, love, and compassion. When marriages falter, the ripple effects can be felt throughout the church. Children raised in unstable environments often struggle with emotional and social issues, leading to broader societal problems. The Church has a unique role in promoting the beauty and importance of sacramental marriage, providing support and resources for couples to thrive and families to flourish.
Moreover, the increase in women participating in the workforce—while empowering—has also shifted traditional family dynamics. In 1960, around 70% of women were stay-at-home mothers, creating a nurturing environment for children. Today, with 57% of women employed, the challenge lies in balancing work and family life while ensuring that children receive the love and guidance they need.
The Catholic Church must rise to this challenge with enthusiasm and commitment. By prioritizing marriage and family, we can inspire a renaissance of strong, faith-filled families that reflect God’s love in the world.
In conclusion, marriage and family should be one of the highest priorities for the Catholic Church. The conversation around the decline of practicing Catholics and the shortage of priests and religious in America is important. If we focus on evangelizing, sacramental marriage and family the rest will fix itself. Let’s rise to the challenge and spread the joy of our faith!
Pax and Carpe Diem
Mike the Lesser