The feud between Taylor Swift and John Mayer is rooted in their brief romantic relationship in 2009. After their breakup, Swift released the song "Dear John" on her "Speak Now" album in 2010, which many interpreted as a commentary on Mayer. The song suggested feelings of betrayal and heartbreak.
Mayer later expressed discomfort with the song, stating that he felt "humiliated" by it. This exchange of public statements and the emotional undertones in Swift's song fueled a period of tension between them. The feud has been a notable chapter in Swift's personal and professional life, and while both artists have moved on, it remains a topic of interest in pop culture discussions.
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The "Perfectly Lonely" crooner compared Swift to songwriting icon Stevie Nicks, tweeting, "Waking up to this song idea that won't leave my head. 3 days straight now. That means it's good enough to finish. t's called Half of My Heart and I want to sing it with Taylor Swift. She would make a killer Stevie Nicks in contrast to my Tom Petty of a song."
At the time, the Miss Americana star told Elle that she "freaked out" when she saw the post. "I'm really excited about just the idea that he would even mention me in his Twitter!" she said, calling herself a "big fan" of Mayer.
Their collaboration, "Half of My Heart," was featured on Mayer's Grammy-nominated fourth record, Battle Studies.
When they performed their duet at Z100's Jingle Ball in New York City, fans were quick to suspect that a romance was brewing.
After enjoying a two-hour dinner at Nashville Bistro Cabana one month prior, the pair's rumoured flame fizzled out.
Though it was months after they called it quits, the musicians had a cordial moment at the 41st annual Songwriters Hall of Fame Ceremony. Mayer presented his ex with an award, gushing, "You could put her in a time machine in any era and she would have a hit record. Don't confuse everybody loving one thing as hype. Sometimes that's everyone agreeing that it's fabulous."
When her album Speak Now was released, the lyrics on "Dear John" stood out to Swift's fans. "Dear John, I see it all, now it was wrong / Don't you think 19 is too young / To be played by your dark twisted games, when I loved you so? / I should've known," she sings.
Elsewhere in the song, she calls the John in question "an expert at sorry and keeping the lines blurry."
The "Say" artist slammed Swift's "cheap songwriting," telling Rolling Stone that he didn't appreciate being the subject of her verses. "It made me feel terrible. It was a really lousy thing to do," he said. "I never got an email. I never got a phone call. I was really caught off guard. ... [That's] abusing your talent to rub your hands together and go, 'Wait 'til he gets a load of this!' That's bulls–t."
Mayer seemingly came back with a diss track of his own in the form of "Paper Doll" from his record Paradise Valley. As listeners collected clues pointing toward Swift being the titular doll — and the ex he sings about being "22 girls in one" — he joined the conversation.
"Yeah, songwriters write songs because of people, about people," Mayer said during an interview on Today. "Anything someone else wrote is their reception of a song. I don't get involved with [it]. It's none of my business."
The Grammy winner found himself in hot water after tweeting, "Tuesday, December 13, may be the lamest day of the year, conceptually." When social media users detected shade — December 13 is Swift's birthday — he quickly cleared the air.
"NOPE. No. Nuh-uh," he wrote in a follow-up post. "People I am 39. I am deleting those tweets. Come right at me for doing so. Absolutely no shade."
Swift avoided the press during her Reputation era, but that didn't keep Mayer from weighing in on her work. He hosted a Q&A after performing at the iHeartRadio Theatre in California, telling fans that he "was thinking about reputation" when working on his song "New Light."
Mayer quipped at the time, "Not the album, but that's still fine. That's a fine piece of work."
Following the rerelease of 2012's Red — and with the new version of Speak Now on the horizon — Mayer responded to an angry DM from a Swift fan, which was later shared via TikTok. "F–k yourself you ugly bitch I hope you choke on something," the user wrote, to which Mayer replied, "I've been getting so many messages like these the past couple days. I'm not upset, I just tend to have a curious mind and feel compelled to ask. Do you really hope that I die?"
The fan later apologized and the singer noted in a voice message, "So it's a fun thing people are doing without taking into account that I might see it and be affected by it? It's 100 percent OK. Go forth and live happy and healthy!"
When Swift dropped her 10th album, Midnights, she released seven bonus tracks on an extended version of the record. Fans were quick to assume "Would've, Could've, Should've" was about Mayer.
"And I damn sure would've never danced with the devil / At 19, and the God's honest truth is that the pain was heaven / And now that I'm grown, I'm scared of ghosts," she sings, before hinting, "I regret you all the time."