I am Sekamanje Eddy, An Anglican by faith, saved by the Lord God Almighty Jesus Christ, grown up from a Christian Family, I hold a bachelors degree of Information technology, born on 1st October 1986, and have seen & learnt from my family that Jesus is the Lord of our lives and everything we do must be of Christ-like love with our neighbours. I am grateful that God has been there for our family as our refugee in any life's situations that may be challenging and not challenging, but all have and will happen for a purpose for my or our own betterment. There is nothing a surprise to God. From the book of Jeremiah 29:11(NIV) "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. " and Psalm 23:1(NIV) "The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. " According to these two teachings, I see God speaking to me and in my life abundantly being there for me up to date and in our family and the lives of many Godly people who trust and believe that Jesus Christ is the Lord, God.
According to the teaching of the Holy Bible the Book of Proverbs 18:22 (NIV) "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." and also (NLT) "The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the LORD." Also the same Holy Bible teaches from the book of Genesis 2:18(NIV) The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." likewise (NLT) Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him."
More still the teaching of the Holy Bible; Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NIV)9 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: 10 If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. 11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? 12 Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
According to the above teachings of the Holy Bible and I know God's word is truth and living, I express my interest to seek a Godly, fearing person (Lady) that accepted Jesus Christ as His Lord and Savior over everything of her life and whatever she does for a Date until we agree for marriage. Besides that main requirement, also there are other major requirements as follows:
Educated with a minimum a Diploma or Bachelors Degree in Information Technology, Business Administration or any other Course.
One should be already working class in any company or self-employed with exploration of her skills.
One should have an open mindset ready to share and learn more the Christ-like teachings with other through the skills of computer usage in the Information Technology field. And also ready to keep learning everyday in the long run.
One should have her plan she is following however to be flexible and to integrate with mine to come up with a well structured step-by-step guide to achieve our goals as one (team).
One should be ready to accept who I am. She should have a Christian born again foundation, single and has never been married, with no children because I am also single man and have never been engaged in marriage relationship.
Is she willing to learn and grow?
This is a reflection of her heart. Perhaps nothing reveals a person’s depth and genuine level of humility more quickly than having a heart that is teachable. Not everyone can see a need to learn more and accept instruction.
Business leaders recognize that some people have 20 years of experience, and others have one year of experience, 20 times over. A teachable person will be learning from his or her own mistakes, as well as those of others, and will be constantly growing and maturing. “Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a just man, and he will increase in learning” (Proverbs 9:9).
Is she tenderhearted?
Is she first and foremost attentive toward God and His laws? Is she also tenderhearted toward others, wanting to help and serve others when she sees a need?Is she first and foremost attentive toward God and His laws? Is she also tenderhearted toward others, wanting to help and serve others when she sees a need? Think of the father of the prodigal son, who saw his son coming from a long way off and “had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck [hugged him] and kissed him” (Luke 15:20).
Among the fruit of the Spirit we find kindness, goodness and gentleness (Galatians 5:22-23). These are spiritual qualities that allow us to exhibit the characteristics Paul described in Ephesians 4:32: “And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.”
Is she a woman of God?
What foundational element of character could be more important? In describing how the wife of a congregational leader should be, the apostle Paul wrote, “Wives must also be of good character. They must not be gossips, but they must control their tempers and be trustworthy in every way” (1 Timothy 3:11, God’s Word Translation).
Such a woman will show by her words and actions that she submits to the rule of her Creator. Her relationship with God will come first in her life, and her faithfulness will shine through everything she says and does. As Ruth famously said, “Entreat me not to leave you, or to turn back from following after you; for wherever you go, I will go; and wherever you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God, my God” (Ruth 1:16).
This basic attitude should be the No. 1 characteristic a man looks for in a wife: a woman who is committed to being faithful to God her entire life.