Domestic Violence Awareness Walk 2019
Volunteers from the Viking Vibe (SBHS School Newspaper) wrote this article about the Domestic Violence Awareness Walk
Annual Domestic Violence Awareness Walk
by Amal Ali ('21) and Mytreyi Sureshkumar ('21)
On October 13, the South Brunswick Commission on Women (SBCW) hosted its annual walk at the South Brunswick Senior Center in support of the movement against domestic violence. Their mission is to reach out to victims who have been personally affected by domestic violence and to raise awareness.
SBCW Student Commissioner Nikita Arya said, “I’m happy to see how much people care about domestic violence, especially because it’s regularly looked upon as ‘taboo’ in some communities.”
The event began at 2 pm with presentations on the importance of talking about domestic violence from Women Aware, Womanspace, SB Police, and The Council on Compulsive Gambling of New Jersey. Attendees donated care packages that were then distributed to women’s shelters and organizations that help victims recover and get back on their feet.
Susan Adams, Coordinator of Volunteers & Community Outreach at Womanspace, said, “Domestic violence doesn’t discriminate in age, gender, color. It affects all people.”
Womanspace and Women Aware are sister organizations dedicated to making women feel safe and comfortable talking to someone about their experiences of abuse. Womanspace does work in Mercer County and Women Aware is focused on Middlesex County, but some of their services both include safety planning, counseling and housing assistance. They also run a 24-hour hotline that is available to anyone experiencing domestic violence.
Women Aware Assistant Executive Director Maria Betanoz said, “Middlesex County has final restraining order hearings every single day. Differently than other counties where hearings are scheduled a couple of days a week, we are heard every day. There are over 5000 incidents reported every year.”
South Brunswick Police Officer Raymond McCarthy offered information regarding restraining orders.
Before October 1, if one’s restraining order was appealed, they had to drive to Middlesex County Family Court in New Brunswick to stand before a judge.
Now, the process is simplified. Anyone can be connected to a lawyer and judge if their first restraining order is appealed, and have a second hearing over the phone.
McCarthy said, “If your first request is appealed, chances are your second one will be approved.”
After the informative presentations, the walk began from the senior center, passing the South Brunswick Public Library and Kingston Lane. Walkers carried signs with phrases such as “Break the silence on domestic violence” and wore purple, which is the color associated with domestic violence awareness.
About 80 participants walked, along with Student Commissioners Rhea Paul and Nikita Arya, who are both Juniors at SBHS.
Rhea Paul said, “It was uplifting to see everyone's energy during the walk, and how South Brunswick really came together as a community to walk for the same purpose; to raise awareness about domestic violence.”
SOUTH BRUNSWICK, NJ - The South Brunswick Commission on Women held their annual walk to raise awareness of Domestic Violence last week. The walk began at the South Brunswick Senior Center and tracked about one mile to the neighboring schools and back. Before the walk began, the commission hosted several guest speakers who shared personal stories and shared information about domestic violence. The committee collected donations of feminine products and other resources and put them into shoe boxes. The boxes will be delivered to Womanspace Inc, a non-profit organization which provides services for victims of domestic violence in the Mercer County area.
The event featured a long list of guest speakers both from local government, such as Deputy Mayor Joe Camarota and Assemblyman Roy Frieman, as well as prominent members of the community, such as Board of Education member Azra Baig and Girl Scout troop leader Tawana Sampson. This is the only event that the Commission does to raise awareness of domestic violence, but they are in attendance at South Brunswick's national ‘Night Out’ and will hold a women’s conference in March to empower girls from eighth to twelfth grade.
Joyce Mehta is the recording secretary for the Commission and a member of the South Brunswick Board of Education. Before beginning her opening speech, Mehta held up her phone and set a timer nine seconds. Mehta explains that every nine second in the United States, a woman is assaulted or beaten. She goes onto say that more women are injured in domestic violence per year in the US than in car accidents, muggings and rapes combined.
“No level of violence is acceptable, it comes down to power used by one person in a relationship to control another as a means to dominate their victims. “The main object of this walk is to support women and provide the with useful resources. To draw attention to this disease and let everyone know that it is unacceptable”
Susan Adams, the Coordinator of Volunteers & Community Outreach at Womanspace Inc, was another guest speaker before the walk. Adams compared being an abuser to cancer that needs to be treated. She advocates for more funding for programs to help those who are abusers, such as therapeutic treatments, in an effort to stop the behavior in its tracks and to prevent more abuse from happening.
Assemblyman Roy Frieman made a surprise appearance at the event and told the audience that this issue was personal to him and his family. The Assemblyman was wearing a purple ribbon on his lapel which he explained was made out the cloth of his daughter’s Halloween dress when she was six years old. Frieman told the crowd that his daughter was in an abusive relationship that he and his wife were unaware of.
“Anything that we can do to create a safer environment for these women in these relationships and these families we have to do, and anything that we can do to make sure these bastards realize that there is no tolerance for this.” Frieman said “I really appreciate what this committee does and the women who are brave enough to come forward.”